"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Any advantage to the car I buy ?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Roger that captian... I've seen this put down sooo may times. If you want to attract a chic with a ride be a man and buy a motorcycle
...Joking of course but I get mad chics on my bike but its because of my image not the bikes...isn't it?Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
it's the bike
bike = LARGE VIBRATING ENGINE BETWEEN WOMANS LEGS
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Ha! I knew there was a reason why chics dig guys with harleys way more then my street ride friends!:crackup:
substance dependent loser types (probably compensating for something with their ride).
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
TxCowboy
Senior Don Juan
Honestly , if you like the car and can afford it , buy it! If it runs and gets you from A to B - who cares. If a h0 gets inside it , and its a POS but its all you can afford, and she DOESNT approve, forget her and move on .... she's materialistic ...
L8rs
I'm planning on buying a new car. I could buy a Toyota (great car), or pay more and get a BMW, Audi or whatever.
Is there any reason to do so as far as attracting women is concerned? So far,
noone has convinced me that there is a good reason to do so (unless I'm after young (teen) girls, which I'm not. At this point I think if I get a Toyota with leather seats, premium stereo, alloy wheels I'm probably going to do as well as anything else. I already have a truck I use.
Let me also point out that in a previous post I mentioned a guy I work with who is getting divorced that has girls all over him.
He drives a Dodge Neon (mainly because of a long commute)
RedPill
Master Don Juan
Nice cars attract chicks, let's not fool ourselves. For whatever reason, be it the "fun" factor, media hype (movies, etc), or the money factor, a nice car will definitely help your game.
That being said...
Unless your car is a royal piece of dog shyt, it will not kill your game. Personally, I see the car as a tool for getting from point A to B. Of course, what I do for a living requires extensive travel.
In my experience, the women who care the most about your car are the ones with the most gold-digger tendencies. Kind of ironic, because most anyone outside of inheritance who becomes wealthy doesn't do so by taking on the massive liability of having an expensive, tricked-out ride. It blows my mind just how many people I know who bust their hump to make the payments (and repairs, insurance, etc) on their car. You don't have to pay an arm and a leg for a car that's decent, you just have to look around. I don't know about you guys, but I'd far prefer to become successful with money in *reality* rather than with a fake image which hinders that reality from ever happening.
The bottom line:
Unless you have a massive amount of cash on your hands, your main passion in life is cars, or you have absolutely given up on the possibility of financial independence, get a car that's practical. If the chick digs you for you, it won't matter to her.
buying a new BMW is going to attract alot of women my way then I would go for it. And I don't mind someone with gold-digger "tendencies" so long as I know this and find her appealing otherwise. Interestingly, the women I've found to have some gold-digger in them all came from money poor backgrounds and seemed good people otherwise.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Brian20o2
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(by classic i mean late 60s muscle cars and earlier classics)
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As long as your car is nice and clean, chicks will dig it. A really cool car will get initial attention, but I doubt they would pick a guy with a bmw over a honda for that reason alone. (bmw is sweet though).
lol, some guys are so masturbatory about cars. :crackup:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Some new high performance hybrids are about to hit the market real soon. Toyota's testing their new Lexus LS600, which is a V8 hybrid. Basically, V12 power with V6 gas mileage.Originally posted by Lost In Translation
petrol / gas is so expensive
soon we will all be driving little cars with small engines because oil prices are getting out of control
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Johnnie5
Don Juan
in reality chicks couldnt really give a **** what you are driving, as long as its clean and doesnt stink , over the years i've had some pretty ****ty work vans, complete with signage , chicks havent given a ****, its wheels and gets them there so who gives a ****
when you find one that says oh no i'm not getting in that sort of car then you say fine seeya
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Good freaking grief. I hate car posers. I can't even believe someone who claims to be over 30 years old makes a string of posts this crappy. I'm 20 for pete's sake and I have to post this to you. I guess working at a car dealership is good for one thing.
Generally, I think RedPill sums it up pretty well.
And from Android:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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