"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Any (Active) Army, Airforce, Navy personal, have any advice for me on the Military?

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Hi all, I'm unsure which forum I should be posting this in.

I'm interested in joining a military branch, for active duty or reserves.
About 7 Years ago, I broke my Femur bone (Compound Fracture) and I had a steel pin inserted in the bone of my left femur itself after surgery. I'm fully functional, no health problems at all.

My question to you is, would a pin in my femur hinder me from joining the Military ? I could definitely pass the ASVAB, just this damn Pin seems to be holding me back from taking City, State or Federal Law-Enforcement jobs. I'd really like to join the Military over Law enforcement, even with the risk factors of coming back Limbless, or wind up dead period.

I'd appreciate the advice, thanks in advance.
- ReTiCuLe
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wouldn't worry about femur thing as to me it seems you'd most likely fail the aptitude test! What on earth has your post got to do with "Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others"????
 

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Fvck off back to the high school forum! Numptie!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ReTiCuLeX said:
Hi all, I'm unsure which forum I should be posting this in.

I'm interested in joining a military branch, for active duty or reserves.
About 7 Years ago, I broke my Femur bone (Compound Fracture) and I had a steel pin inserted in the bone of my left femur itself after surgery. I'm fully functional, no health problems at all.

My question to you is, would a pin in my femur hinder me from joining the Military ? I could definitely pass the ASVAB, just this damn Pin seems to be holding me back from taking City, State or Federal Law-Enforcement jobs. I'd really like to join the Military over Law enforcement, even with the risk factors of coming back Limbless, or wind up dead period.

I'd appreciate the advice, thanks in advance.
- ReTiCuLe
Let's assume it hinders you...well, then there is nothing you can do about it.

Now...let's assume it does not hinders you.

My point is...you will go through a medical examination anyhow and they will determine if you are medically capable.

Note: The main "risk" factor would be getting CONSIDERABLY underpaid for the amount of work you are doing...as I have seen many enlisted men with Food Stamps and WIC.
 

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I've been in the canadian reserves for 4.5 years now, although it is not quite like the american military reserves (ie. we don't have to go overseas if we choose not to, but i have had a few friends that just come back from afghanistan). I'd think other than that, the reserve life is probably the same.

it's too bad you guy's cant "try it out" before joining the regular force.

anyways. I cant answer your question, but i'd tell you what i'd do: get it checked out through whatever you guys do down there. the military doctor or whatever. the medical examination. if you pass that,then you're good to go. if not then there's not much you can do about it right?
 

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Thanks for all the tips and helpful information guys. I will go to a recruiter sometime next week, seeing if I can visit an Army doctor.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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