"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Any (Active) Army, Airforce, Navy personal, have any advice for me on the Military?

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Hi all, I'm unsure which forum I should be posting this in.

I'm interested in joining a military branch, for active duty or reserves.
About 7 Years ago, I broke my Femur bone (Compound Fracture) and I had a steel pin inserted in the bone of my left femur itself after surgery. I'm fully functional, no health problems at all.

My question to you is, would a pin in my femur hinder me from joining the Military ? I could definitely pass the ASVAB, just this damn Pin seems to be holding me back from taking City, State or Federal Law-Enforcement jobs. I'd really like to join the Military over Law enforcement, even with the risk factors of coming back Limbless, or wind up dead period.

I'd appreciate the advice, thanks in advance.
- ReTiCuLe
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I wouldn't worry about femur thing as to me it seems you'd most likely fail the aptitude test! What on earth has your post got to do with "Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others"????
 

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Fvck off back to the high school forum! Numptie!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ReTiCuLeX said:
Hi all, I'm unsure which forum I should be posting this in.

I'm interested in joining a military branch, for active duty or reserves.
About 7 Years ago, I broke my Femur bone (Compound Fracture) and I had a steel pin inserted in the bone of my left femur itself after surgery. I'm fully functional, no health problems at all.

My question to you is, would a pin in my femur hinder me from joining the Military ? I could definitely pass the ASVAB, just this damn Pin seems to be holding me back from taking City, State or Federal Law-Enforcement jobs. I'd really like to join the Military over Law enforcement, even with the risk factors of coming back Limbless, or wind up dead period.

I'd appreciate the advice, thanks in advance.
- ReTiCuLe
Let's assume it hinders you...well, then there is nothing you can do about it.

Now...let's assume it does not hinders you.

My point is...you will go through a medical examination anyhow and they will determine if you are medically capable.

Note: The main "risk" factor would be getting CONSIDERABLY underpaid for the amount of work you are doing...as I have seen many enlisted men with Food Stamps and WIC.
 

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I've been in the canadian reserves for 4.5 years now, although it is not quite like the american military reserves (ie. we don't have to go overseas if we choose not to, but i have had a few friends that just come back from afghanistan). I'd think other than that, the reserve life is probably the same.

it's too bad you guy's cant "try it out" before joining the regular force.

anyways. I cant answer your question, but i'd tell you what i'd do: get it checked out through whatever you guys do down there. the military doctor or whatever. the medical examination. if you pass that,then you're good to go. if not then there's not much you can do about it right?
 

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Thanks for all the tips and helpful information guys. I will go to a recruiter sometime next week, seeing if I can visit an Army doctor.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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