"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Anxiety vs Nervousness both same ?

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Are Anxiety vs Nervousness both same ?

not sure what it is ,sometimes im not so relaxed
Any others in similar shoes before ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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They can be the same. Check out www.anxietybc.com

If you think you might have a problem with anxiety get yourself a biofeedback device. I suggest the GSR2.(You can buy them online for like 100bux) Look on youtube for how it works. I got one a few years back and with the feedback device you can learn to control anxiety by controlling the pitch sound on the devive with your feelings. Its really weird. You can test your anxiety level with it too. The smaller the sensitivity number the higher your anxiety is. It will show you how anxiety affects you before you even realize its causing an effect... Before the knot in your gut.. Before you lose your cognitive thinking ability in the heat of an anxious moment.

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They're both pretty much based on "what if ??" and assuming the worst (negative mindset). The cure to them is to be more present and try and adopt a more positive (or don't give a FVCK ) mindset.
 
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