Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Anxiety vs Nervousness both same ?

carrot

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Are Anxiety vs Nervousness both same ?

not sure what it is ,sometimes im not so relaxed
Any others in similar shoes before ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Epimanes

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They can be the same. Check out www.anxietybc.com

If you think you might have a problem with anxiety get yourself a biofeedback device. I suggest the GSR2.(You can buy them online for like 100bux) Look on youtube for how it works. I got one a few years back and with the feedback device you can learn to control anxiety by controlling the pitch sound on the devive with your feelings. Its really weird. You can test your anxiety level with it too. The smaller the sensitivity number the higher your anxiety is. It will show you how anxiety affects you before you even realize its causing an effect... Before the knot in your gut.. Before you lose your cognitive thinking ability in the heat of an anxious moment.

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They're both pretty much based on "what if ??" and assuming the worst (negative mindset). The cure to them is to be more present and try and adopt a more positive (or don't give a FVCK ) mindset.
 
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