"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Answer To "Your not my type" kind of line

Sayajin_Prince

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 11, 2003
Messages
119
Reaction score
0
Age
50
Location
London UK
well approaching girls and being rejected and handling that rejection is something i have not mastered yet, one of the lines i hear the most is:

" you are not my type "


this comes from mature woman, younger girls have a different way of rejecting, they are more blunt and stupid, and i have pleasure in fighting rude comments with rude comments. but the you are not my type is one of the hardest types of rejection i have faced, even in the field or online, and sometimes they come from girls that are not that special 5's and 6's.


i just block, become fustrated and dont have a answer made.

i wonder how u guys deal with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

squirrels

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2003
Messages
6,620
Reaction score
186
Age
47
Location
A universe...where heartbreak and sadness have bee
From older women? "Yeah I know, but I thought you might have a daughter my age who MIGHT be my type. :D"

I would ask for clarification..."And what type might that be?"
 

Anomalous

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
764
Reaction score
5
Say, "Yea your right, the tall, dark and handsome doesn't look like the type for you!":cool:
 

DonJuanMonk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 20, 2005
Messages
826
Reaction score
0
Location
CA
A simple "SEE YA" is good enough. Is there a reason to give a trivial or even trying to be funny answer?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Derek Flint

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 24, 2002
Messages
1,731
Reaction score
40
Location
Marin County, CA - just North of San Francisco
Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
A simple "SEE YA" is good enough. Is there a reason to give a trivial or even trying to be funny answer?
Sometimes, women will "test" you to see how you react:

"I have a b/f" or "You're not my type"

If you get rude, or walk away, you didn't pass her test.

Women get approached a lot, and simply don't have the time or energy to get to know every guy who approaches them, so they must have a fast and effecient way of screening out the pretenders from the contenders, a way of quickly finding out which guys have balls, have confidence, and aren't deterred by obstacle.

Usually, they say "I have a b/f" or similar.

And 9 out of 10 guys will eject.

Are you going to be one of the 9 out of 10, which gives you *zero* chance of gaming her, or are you going to stay and be undeterred, and not blow yourself out?
 
Top