"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Answer To "Your not my type" kind of line

Sayajin_Prince

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 11, 2003
Messages
119
Reaction score
0
Age
50
Location
London UK
well approaching girls and being rejected and handling that rejection is something i have not mastered yet, one of the lines i hear the most is:

" you are not my type "


this comes from mature woman, younger girls have a different way of rejecting, they are more blunt and stupid, and i have pleasure in fighting rude comments with rude comments. but the you are not my type is one of the hardest types of rejection i have faced, even in the field or online, and sometimes they come from girls that are not that special 5's and 6's.


i just block, become fustrated and dont have a answer made.

i wonder how u guys deal with it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

squirrels

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2003
Messages
6,620
Reaction score
186
Age
47
Location
A universe...where heartbreak and sadness have bee
From older women? "Yeah I know, but I thought you might have a daughter my age who MIGHT be my type. :D"

I would ask for clarification..."And what type might that be?"
 

Anomalous

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
764
Reaction score
5
Say, "Yea your right, the tall, dark and handsome doesn't look like the type for you!":cool:
 

DonJuanMonk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 20, 2005
Messages
826
Reaction score
0
Location
CA
A simple "SEE YA" is good enough. Is there a reason to give a trivial or even trying to be funny answer?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Derek Flint

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 24, 2002
Messages
1,731
Reaction score
40
Location
Marin County, CA - just North of San Francisco
Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
A simple "SEE YA" is good enough. Is there a reason to give a trivial or even trying to be funny answer?
Sometimes, women will "test" you to see how you react:

"I have a b/f" or "You're not my type"

If you get rude, or walk away, you didn't pass her test.

Women get approached a lot, and simply don't have the time or energy to get to know every guy who approaches them, so they must have a fast and effecient way of screening out the pretenders from the contenders, a way of quickly finding out which guys have balls, have confidence, and aren't deterred by obstacle.

Usually, they say "I have a b/f" or similar.

And 9 out of 10 guys will eject.

Are you going to be one of the 9 out of 10, which gives you *zero* chance of gaming her, or are you going to stay and be undeterred, and not blow yourself out?
 
Top