"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Answer To "Your not my type" kind of line

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well approaching girls and being rejected and handling that rejection is something i have not mastered yet, one of the lines i hear the most is:

" you are not my type "


this comes from mature woman, younger girls have a different way of rejecting, they are more blunt and stupid, and i have pleasure in fighting rude comments with rude comments. but the you are not my type is one of the hardest types of rejection i have faced, even in the field or online, and sometimes they come from girls that are not that special 5's and 6's.


i just block, become fustrated and dont have a answer made.

i wonder how u guys deal with it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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From older women? "Yeah I know, but I thought you might have a daughter my age who MIGHT be my type. :D"

I would ask for clarification..."And what type might that be?"
 

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Say, "Yea your right, the tall, dark and handsome doesn't look like the type for you!":cool:
 

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A simple "SEE YA" is good enough. Is there a reason to give a trivial or even trying to be funny answer?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
A simple "SEE YA" is good enough. Is there a reason to give a trivial or even trying to be funny answer?
Sometimes, women will "test" you to see how you react:

"I have a b/f" or "You're not my type"

If you get rude, or walk away, you didn't pass her test.

Women get approached a lot, and simply don't have the time or energy to get to know every guy who approaches them, so they must have a fast and effecient way of screening out the pretenders from the contenders, a way of quickly finding out which guys have balls, have confidence, and aren't deterred by obstacle.

Usually, they say "I have a b/f" or similar.

And 9 out of 10 guys will eject.

Are you going to be one of the 9 out of 10, which gives you *zero* chance of gaming her, or are you going to stay and be undeterred, and not blow yourself out?
 
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