That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Then why are you here? I mean, I came here because I want some tips and stuff to use. There has to be the secret that you guys knwo right? Or just what the hell do you guys do around here? Do you just log in everyday and discuss women or something?Chosen1 says, Getting a girl is so coplicated and so simple.
No, no. no. no!!!! Do you know that giving flowers and serenadeing a beauty with song was a legetimate tactic, not to long ago? But the hor HAS TAKEN ON MASCULINE TRAITS IN HER BOLDNESS TO DO AS MEN DO - AND THUS THE man must treat the hor with a different mindset and tactics to "win" her over!! This is why the hor likes the jerk - because he has become super-masculine in his "jerkness" and thus he is "more" masculine than the hor!!! It is a complex dynamic which has been introduced in the last forty years!! This is the hor/homo MATRIX - which trys to make the male weak and the female less weak (women cannot be strong!!!!)!!!!!Obsidian said:Lastman, could you explain how picking up real women involves different strategies from picking up hors?
I know what a hor is, but as far as I know, you attract them in pretty much the same way as feminine women.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm here to share what I know and think. This site is kind of pointless because there is no secret to getting females. This site just keeps us on point and make sure we follow through with things and remember why we came here (I'll get into this later). When I said women are complicated and simple I mean that we as guys make it really hard to meet someone. The thing to remember is just to have fun and talk that's basically it.HUFFY said:Then why are you here? I mean, I came here because I want some tips and stuff to use. There has to be the secret that you guys knwo right? Or just what the hell do you guys do around here? Do you just log in everyday and discuss women or something?
I'm starting to get freaked out.
Most men here are being emotionally devestated by hors because they mistook them as women!!! WRONG!!! Hors are masculine by action and thinking tus you cannot approach them as women -- Say "NO" to loving and being emotional with hos!!!!!Obsidian said:But your message is to say no to hoes. Are you now saying that all women are hoes? Or almost all?
I'm answering the call. No, of course not all women are hoes, but they have hoe like qualities. This should be common knowledge to you that no matter how afcish you are not there are 10 others that are worse then you. I mean pay attention to some guys even guys that get plenty of booty act afcish. Then there are guys who are nice but don't back down like me (anymore) where we might not get as much booty but we sure in the hell know the game women play. Well, that's now a days at least. I know I better have fun now because she's going to have fun why not me. Don't worry about her so much girls can take care of themselves probably better then guys. There so much to remember but I just know to 1. listen 2. take your time and respond accordingly. :cuss:Obsidian said:But your message is to say no to hoes. Are you now saying that all women are hoes? Or almost all?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The secret s that you can't sum up women, get use to it.HUFFY said:Look, all this damn reading.
There's like a thousand different answers on here about how to get women. Can someone just sum it up, and give me the answer so I can go on with my life?
I just want to know and move on....shyt.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.