Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Then why are you here? I mean, I came here because I want some tips and stuff to use. There has to be the secret that you guys knwo right? Or just what the hell do you guys do around here? Do you just log in everyday and discuss women or something?Chosen1 says, Getting a girl is so coplicated and so simple.
No, no. no. no!!!! Do you know that giving flowers and serenadeing a beauty with song was a legetimate tactic, not to long ago? But the hor HAS TAKEN ON MASCULINE TRAITS IN HER BOLDNESS TO DO AS MEN DO - AND THUS THE man must treat the hor with a different mindset and tactics to "win" her over!! This is why the hor likes the jerk - because he has become super-masculine in his "jerkness" and thus he is "more" masculine than the hor!!! It is a complex dynamic which has been introduced in the last forty years!! This is the hor/homo MATRIX - which trys to make the male weak and the female less weak (women cannot be strong!!!!)!!!!!Obsidian said:Lastman, could you explain how picking up real women involves different strategies from picking up hors?
I know what a hor is, but as far as I know, you attract them in pretty much the same way as feminine women.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'm here to share what I know and think. This site is kind of pointless because there is no secret to getting females. This site just keeps us on point and make sure we follow through with things and remember why we came here (I'll get into this later). When I said women are complicated and simple I mean that we as guys make it really hard to meet someone. The thing to remember is just to have fun and talk that's basically it.HUFFY said:Then why are you here? I mean, I came here because I want some tips and stuff to use. There has to be the secret that you guys knwo right? Or just what the hell do you guys do around here? Do you just log in everyday and discuss women or something?
I'm starting to get freaked out.
Most men here are being emotionally devestated by hors because they mistook them as women!!! WRONG!!! Hors are masculine by action and thinking tus you cannot approach them as women -- Say "NO" to loving and being emotional with hos!!!!!Obsidian said:But your message is to say no to hoes. Are you now saying that all women are hoes? Or almost all?
I'm answering the call. No, of course not all women are hoes, but they have hoe like qualities. This should be common knowledge to you that no matter how afcish you are not there are 10 others that are worse then you. I mean pay attention to some guys even guys that get plenty of booty act afcish. Then there are guys who are nice but don't back down like me (anymore) where we might not get as much booty but we sure in the hell know the game women play. Well, that's now a days at least. I know I better have fun now because she's going to have fun why not me. Don't worry about her so much girls can take care of themselves probably better then guys. There so much to remember but I just know to 1. listen 2. take your time and respond accordingly. :cuss:Obsidian said:But your message is to say no to hoes. Are you now saying that all women are hoes? Or almost all?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The secret s that you can't sum up women, get use to it.HUFFY said:Look, all this damn reading.
There's like a thousand different answers on here about how to get women. Can someone just sum it up, and give me the answer so I can go on with my life?
I just want to know and move on....shyt.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.