"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BxPrince24

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Back again, it's been a while since I've checked the forums, but here's my current dilema.

Well I've finally developed the balls to talk to anyone i feel like. Aside from that, I started talking to this girl who works for the same company i do, we're both sales reps. So anyway, it's been about a week now and it's like we're pretty close now, but the thing is that she's bi-sexual (which is a plus) but she has a gf that she's been seeing for 3 months now.

Now I know a lot of ppl would say leave them alone and don't be a homewrecker, which is why i'm asking here. I know I'll get other answers here. So we are comfortable enough to touch each other. She'll fix my clothing if she see's something wrong with it, I find her putting her hand on my knee alot, I've hugged her numerous times, put my arms around her a few times, she calls me sweety, hun, etc... but she's still very dedicated to the gf she's with.

Now what do I do from here? Do I continue to do as I'm doing? My cuz told me that I should mess with her head a little, like say things like if you were mine we would.... but you have your girl, etc... What are your opinions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BxPrince24

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guess so... doesn't change the fact that there's some connection between me and her. I wanna what advice can be given on the situation though.
 

themanwithnoname

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bisexuals = headcases is right, i have yet to meet an actual normal bisexual girl, infact most of them are whacked (see angelina jolie for example.)
 

Black_Italian

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Now that you mention it all the bi girls i know are fruit loops.

One is suicidal and she latches on to any guy because she is afraid of being single

Two listens to Marlyn Manson and wears black makeup (enough said)

and there are many more that are juts a little whacked.

If she is bisexual RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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