"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BxPrince24

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Back again, it's been a while since I've checked the forums, but here's my current dilema.

Well I've finally developed the balls to talk to anyone i feel like. Aside from that, I started talking to this girl who works for the same company i do, we're both sales reps. So anyway, it's been about a week now and it's like we're pretty close now, but the thing is that she's bi-sexual (which is a plus) but she has a gf that she's been seeing for 3 months now.

Now I know a lot of ppl would say leave them alone and don't be a homewrecker, which is why i'm asking here. I know I'll get other answers here. So we are comfortable enough to touch each other. She'll fix my clothing if she see's something wrong with it, I find her putting her hand on my knee alot, I've hugged her numerous times, put my arms around her a few times, she calls me sweety, hun, etc... but she's still very dedicated to the gf she's with.

Now what do I do from here? Do I continue to do as I'm doing? My cuz told me that I should mess with her head a little, like say things like if you were mine we would.... but you have your girl, etc... What are your opinions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BxPrince24

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guess so... doesn't change the fact that there's some connection between me and her. I wanna what advice can be given on the situation though.
 

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bisexuals = headcases is right, i have yet to meet an actual normal bisexual girl, infact most of them are whacked (see angelina jolie for example.)
 

Black_Italian

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Now that you mention it all the bi girls i know are fruit loops.

One is suicidal and she latches on to any guy because she is afraid of being single

Two listens to Marlyn Manson and wears black makeup (enough said)

and there are many more that are juts a little whacked.

If she is bisexual RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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