"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BxPrince24

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Back again, it's been a while since I've checked the forums, but here's my current dilema.

Well I've finally developed the balls to talk to anyone i feel like. Aside from that, I started talking to this girl who works for the same company i do, we're both sales reps. So anyway, it's been about a week now and it's like we're pretty close now, but the thing is that she's bi-sexual (which is a plus) but she has a gf that she's been seeing for 3 months now.

Now I know a lot of ppl would say leave them alone and don't be a homewrecker, which is why i'm asking here. I know I'll get other answers here. So we are comfortable enough to touch each other. She'll fix my clothing if she see's something wrong with it, I find her putting her hand on my knee alot, I've hugged her numerous times, put my arms around her a few times, she calls me sweety, hun, etc... but she's still very dedicated to the gf she's with.

Now what do I do from here? Do I continue to do as I'm doing? My cuz told me that I should mess with her head a little, like say things like if you were mine we would.... but you have your girl, etc... What are your opinions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BxPrince24

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guess so... doesn't change the fact that there's some connection between me and her. I wanna what advice can be given on the situation though.
 

themanwithnoname

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bisexuals = headcases is right, i have yet to meet an actual normal bisexual girl, infact most of them are whacked (see angelina jolie for example.)
 

Black_Italian

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Now that you mention it all the bi girls i know are fruit loops.

One is suicidal and she latches on to any guy because she is afraid of being single

Two listens to Marlyn Manson and wears black makeup (enough said)

and there are many more that are juts a little whacked.

If she is bisexual RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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