"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BxPrince24

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Back again, it's been a while since I've checked the forums, but here's my current dilema.

Well I've finally developed the balls to talk to anyone i feel like. Aside from that, I started talking to this girl who works for the same company i do, we're both sales reps. So anyway, it's been about a week now and it's like we're pretty close now, but the thing is that she's bi-sexual (which is a plus) but she has a gf that she's been seeing for 3 months now.

Now I know a lot of ppl would say leave them alone and don't be a homewrecker, which is why i'm asking here. I know I'll get other answers here. So we are comfortable enough to touch each other. She'll fix my clothing if she see's something wrong with it, I find her putting her hand on my knee alot, I've hugged her numerous times, put my arms around her a few times, she calls me sweety, hun, etc... but she's still very dedicated to the gf she's with.

Now what do I do from here? Do I continue to do as I'm doing? My cuz told me that I should mess with her head a little, like say things like if you were mine we would.... but you have your girl, etc... What are your opinions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BxPrince24

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guess so... doesn't change the fact that there's some connection between me and her. I wanna what advice can be given on the situation though.
 

themanwithnoname

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bisexuals = headcases is right, i have yet to meet an actual normal bisexual girl, infact most of them are whacked (see angelina jolie for example.)
 

Black_Italian

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Now that you mention it all the bi girls i know are fruit loops.

One is suicidal and she latches on to any guy because she is afraid of being single

Two listens to Marlyn Manson and wears black makeup (enough said)

and there are many more that are juts a little whacked.

If she is bisexual RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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