Man, I don't what it is, but I seem to get myself in bad situations lol. It seems like I attract girls with boyfriends, and I don't even try. This girl, HB9, always checked me out in lunch and always smiled at me. She has a boyfriend, so I didn't want to get to involved. I would smile back and that was about it. We had no classes together so I really didn't see her much. She would randomly comment me on myspace, asking how I was, etc. She even said she wanted me to teach her guitar. This went on for a bit, but then we talked a bit in school, nothing major. So then like 2 weeks ago she started commenting me on myspace like crazy. She private messaged me saying that she wanted to talk and gave me her sn. So we were talking online and the whole time she would drop hints, that she liked me or wanted to hang out, like watch a movie together, etc. So she gave me her number. I felt kinda weird cause she had a boyfriend so I didn't call her. She private messaged me the next day again saying that I owed her "a night of fun", since I didn't call her. Now at this point I am kinda lost cause I don't know what this girl wants from me. So last night we talked online and she kept saying she was bord, so we ended taking a walk together at like midnight. There was alittle kino action, but again I didn't want to push it cause she does have a bf. We walked around for awhile and had great conversation. The end of the night came, and we just said bye and she said she would talk to me tomorrow. So what am I to do? Is she using me maybe as an excuse to break up with her bf? I don't know what to do and I know that I wouldn't want anyone to mess around with my gf. Any advice guys, please? Thanks
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Another situation
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
avrilishot
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Ask her if she still gets along wth her b/f....if she says no then she probably likes you, thats what it sounds like to me.
Pantalones
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You gotta make a choice, bro. Keep on straddling the fence and it'll just show her that either you're not interested or that you're afraid of rocking her bf's boat. Neither one is what you want.
There's also the possibility that she's just f'ucking with ya. Knowing high school girls, I've found some will scheme like crazy to get what they want, whether that's jealousy out of her bf or genuine interest in you.
It's entirely your call. Do what feels right.
There's also the possibility that she's just f'ucking with ya. Knowing high school girls, I've found some will scheme like crazy to get what they want, whether that's jealousy out of her bf or genuine interest in you.
It's entirely your call. Do what feels right.
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
Yo man, trust me on this, Boyfriends do not matter. I have broken up girls with their boyfriends before (this was back when I used alot of Mystery and RJ ****), and it was simple man. All you need to know, is that she wants you. Now its your choice, I mean if its in your morals not to, then don't, but if you don't know the guy, screw him if you aren't going to feel guilty (not literally of course).Ben15 said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
rowing_mike
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I would assume that he suggests you set something up with her.
I personally suggest that you don't phone her the day she gets back, like I expect you to. Maybe wait a couple of days.
I personally suggest that you don't phone her the day she gets back, like I expect you to. Maybe wait a couple of days.