Man, I don't what it is, but I seem to get myself in bad situations lol. It seems like I attract girls with boyfriends, and I don't even try. This girl, HB9, always checked me out in lunch and always smiled at me. She has a boyfriend, so I didn't want to get to involved. I would smile back and that was about it. We had no classes together so I really didn't see her much. She would randomly comment me on myspace, asking how I was, etc. She even said she wanted me to teach her guitar. This went on for a bit, but then we talked a bit in school, nothing major. So then like 2 weeks ago she started commenting me on myspace like crazy. She private messaged me saying that she wanted to talk and gave me her sn. So we were talking online and the whole time she would drop hints, that she liked me or wanted to hang out, like watch a movie together, etc. So she gave me her number. I felt kinda weird cause she had a boyfriend so I didn't call her. She private messaged me the next day again saying that I owed her "a night of fun", since I didn't call her. Now at this point I am kinda lost cause I don't know what this girl wants from me. So last night we talked online and she kept saying she was bord, so we ended taking a walk together at like midnight. There was alittle kino action, but again I didn't want to push it cause she does have a bf. We walked around for awhile and had great conversation. The end of the night came, and we just said bye and she said she would talk to me tomorrow. So what am I to do? Is she using me maybe as an excuse to break up with her bf? I don't know what to do and I know that I wouldn't want anyone to mess around with my gf. Any advice guys, please? Thanks
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
avrilishot
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Ask her if she still gets along wth her b/f....if she says no then she probably likes you, thats what it sounds like to me.
Pantalones
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You gotta make a choice, bro. Keep on straddling the fence and it'll just show her that either you're not interested or that you're afraid of rocking her bf's boat. Neither one is what you want.
There's also the possibility that she's just f'ucking with ya. Knowing high school girls, I've found some will scheme like crazy to get what they want, whether that's jealousy out of her bf or genuine interest in you.
It's entirely your call. Do what feels right.
There's also the possibility that she's just f'ucking with ya. Knowing high school girls, I've found some will scheme like crazy to get what they want, whether that's jealousy out of her bf or genuine interest in you.
It's entirely your call. Do what feels right.
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
Yo man, trust me on this, Boyfriends do not matter. I have broken up girls with their boyfriends before (this was back when I used alot of Mystery and RJ ****), and it was simple man. All you need to know, is that she wants you. Now its your choice, I mean if its in your morals not to, then don't, but if you don't know the guy, screw him if you aren't going to feel guilty (not literally of course).Ben15 said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
rowing_mike
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I would assume that he suggests you set something up with her.
I personally suggest that you don't phone her the day she gets back, like I expect you to. Maybe wait a couple of days.
I personally suggest that you don't phone her the day she gets back, like I expect you to. Maybe wait a couple of days.