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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
another rejection that is making me rethink my strategy
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
today i called another girl cute and got completely ignored by her. i was like "i am praising you so why are you minding it?" she ignored again. i just wanna know what will work for me. you are old enough to be my father so pls help this kid and tell me something that i should do
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Stop being dependent on the outcome. It tells me you dont truly believe in yourself. I know it takes a few successes to ignite that confidence. There might be a million reasons why she blew you off. None of them matter. Learn to accept that.
Be different than all the guys before that said the same thing. Start a conversation. I'd start practicing on girls you aren't attracted to. It's about building a connection. Trust me, she knows she is cute. Unless you are a super attractive, 6' plus guy it means nothing to most.
maybe indirect game might work better at day time? i am not that charming or something like that and my body starts shaking while trying to be direct
picked up a girl recently by asking if I should return my espresso martini due to it having four beans rather then three. Told a bunch of guys at my table thats what I was going to do, they all laughed and said it was lame. I gave the old "watch this" and sure enough it did the job.
Its all about delivery and knowing if it doesnt work the next one will. Asking her why you get rejected is auto fail. IF they reject, make a joke of it laugh and move one.
Its a numbers game where once you have done enough the rejections are not even rejections rather lessons to impove your game.
Its all about delivery and knowing if it doesnt work the next one will. Asking her why you get rejected is auto fail. IF they reject, make a joke of it laugh and move one.
Its a numbers game where once you have done enough the rejections are not even rejections rather lessons to impove your game.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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It can happen sometimes but it's not a good strategy. If you want more than just friendship you should be clear about that from the start, otherwise you will end up wasting a lot of time on women that are not interested.
Be lighthearted, non committal, interesting and fun and its not going to come across as harassment. There's a guy on tiktok who all he does is goes up to girls and talk the must absurd lines you have ever heard and it works, granted you never see his fails but who cares its the wins that matter.
Dont overthink it and enjoy it, if you can they will.