"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Master Disaster

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Ok this girl i've been macking sits next to me in a computer class so for fun I typed like "I'm so amazing" then she wrote "I'm so much more amazing" then it goes on and on and on through the whole period... So anyway I got home today and we don't usually talk on myspace and so I got home today and I looked and she started it up on myspace what does this mean? this isn't going to go down the friends road is it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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toddC

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seems to me like shes interested...you have 2 choices here...
a) go for it and ask her to chill this weekend

or..

b) go into the friends zone in 2-3 weeks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Master Disaster

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Ok Today I almost went crazy the day I wrote this she was all over me we laughed the whole period. Then today we barely talked. She just worked and then we talked near the end of the period. I mean she just shut that door. What does that Mean? I'm going crazy...
 

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I'm going crazy...
Lol, she's a clever one;

A) She's doing it deliberately to get the above reaction out of you

OR, she's;

B) Not interested.

Honestly, girls do this stuff subconsciously, it's pretty amazing how much game they have without knowing it.

Just keep up your own game, but don't leave it too long without closing and going out one on one.

Syn.
 

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Come on mate. Your letting her tear you apart. Stop trying to analyse everything she does. Look at the bigger picture. You made a good connection last time, just because she didn't talk to you once doesn't mean she's done a rio 180 flip on you.
Hold your game together and be patient.
 
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