"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok this girl i've been macking sits next to me in a computer class so for fun I typed like "I'm so amazing" then she wrote "I'm so much more amazing" then it goes on and on and on through the whole period... So anyway I got home today and we don't usually talk on myspace and so I got home today and I looked and she started it up on myspace what does this mean? this isn't going to go down the friends road is it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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seems to me like shes interested...you have 2 choices here...
a) go for it and ask her to chill this weekend

or..

b) go into the friends zone in 2-3 weeks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok Today I almost went crazy the day I wrote this she was all over me we laughed the whole period. Then today we barely talked. She just worked and then we talked near the end of the period. I mean she just shut that door. What does that Mean? I'm going crazy...
 
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Lol, she's a clever one;

A) She's doing it deliberately to get the above reaction out of you

OR, she's;

B) Not interested.

Honestly, girls do this stuff subconsciously, it's pretty amazing how much game they have without knowing it.

Just keep up your own game, but don't leave it too long without closing and going out one on one.

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Come on mate. Your letting her tear you apart. Stop trying to analyse everything she does. Look at the bigger picture. You made a good connection last time, just because she didn't talk to you once doesn't mean she's done a rio 180 flip on you.
Hold your game together and be patient.
 
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