"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok this girl i've been macking sits next to me in a computer class so for fun I typed like "I'm so amazing" then she wrote "I'm so much more amazing" then it goes on and on and on through the whole period... So anyway I got home today and we don't usually talk on myspace and so I got home today and I looked and she started it up on myspace what does this mean? this isn't going to go down the friends road is it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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seems to me like shes interested...you have 2 choices here...
a) go for it and ask her to chill this weekend

or..

b) go into the friends zone in 2-3 weeks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok Today I almost went crazy the day I wrote this she was all over me we laughed the whole period. Then today we barely talked. She just worked and then we talked near the end of the period. I mean she just shut that door. What does that Mean? I'm going crazy...
 
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Lol, she's a clever one;

A) She's doing it deliberately to get the above reaction out of you

OR, she's;

B) Not interested.

Honestly, girls do this stuff subconsciously, it's pretty amazing how much game they have without knowing it.

Just keep up your own game, but don't leave it too long without closing and going out one on one.

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Come on mate. Your letting her tear you apart. Stop trying to analyse everything she does. Look at the bigger picture. You made a good connection last time, just because she didn't talk to you once doesn't mean she's done a rio 180 flip on you.
Hold your game together and be patient.
 
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