"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Another one! Tips on how to keep laying a woman that’s in a ltr

TheGambino

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Yesterday I made out with a girl that’s in a ltr for over a year.

Last week I layed one that’s in a ltr for 3 years. We called afterwards and asked her out but she was “busy”. NC right now.

Now the girl from yesterday texts me now.

Any tips to keep a girl who was a bf as a fvckbuddy.

What should You do? And What not?

Open for discussion!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Never mow another man's lawn.

I know these hoes ain't loyal and what not, but have some integrity. Of course it's not your fault that her man is slippin, or she's a low qual. sl*t. But this is asking for some bad karma. There's plenty of women not in "committed" relationships, why even bother with all the drama? My 2¢
 

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Never mow another man's lawn.

I know these hoes ain't loyal and what not, but have some integrity. Of course it's not your fault that her man is slippin, or she's a low qual. sl*t. But this is asking for some bad karma. There's plenty of women not in "committed" relationships, why even bother with all the drama? My 2¢
Because the lay girl loves anal, sauvks it better then All my options and is the hottest one i laid in a couple of years...
 

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Just be more interesting and fun than her LTR. It's that simple. The longer she's been in the LTR, the easier it should be.

Remember, women have been empowered with the right to be friends with whoever they want regardless of their sex or gender! Her BF shouldn't be controlling her, because she'll dump him if he does! :rofl:
 

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Hooking up with women in LTR is actually pretty easy. Just don't be boring and be discrete.... you have to wait for her to come to you. In my recent experience every chick has some kind of "boyfriend", if they aren't living together, engaged, or married... they are fair game.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Just dont be needy and avoid trying to be the third leg in the couple.

Take her when she shows up, ignore her the rest of thetime
 

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Just be more interesting and fun than her LTR. It's that simple. The longer she's been in the LTR, the easier it should be.

Remember, women have been empowered with the right to be friends with whoever they want regardless of their sex or gender! Her BF shouldn't be controlling her, because she'll dump him if he does! :rofl:
Exactley. Her friend told my buddy that she is allowed to fvck around lol! You are right. Ridiculous.
 

TheGambino

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Stop being pathetic and going after involved women.

Have some morals and be better.
In This market All women are “involved” somewhere, even if They are in a ltr. She fvcks around, if I dont do iT another man Will.

So Nonsense...
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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You are better than this.

Raise yourself up and be better.

Let another me be a scumbag then.
Spoken like a true White Knight...
 

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Just be more interesting and fun than her LTR. It's that simple. The longer she's been in the LTR, the easier it should be.

Remember, women have been empowered with the right to be friends with whoever they want regardless of their sex or gender! Her BF shouldn't be controlling her, because she'll dump him if he does! :rofl:
Might as well look at it as ho3s, and not care as long as they bring money in the house.
 

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F8cking Ugly ass fat bitches acting tough in the clubs tonight loooooool **** is getting out of hand
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Funny, friday last week I boned a married 34 yo, the sex was amazing, the next days she kept blowing up my phone for a second session, then a day later or so she cancelled the date last minute.

It's all good though.
 

TheGambino

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Funny, friday last week I boned a married 34 yo, the sex was amazing, the next days she kept blowing up my phone for a second session, then a day later or so she cancelled the date last minute.

It's all good though.
I can relate, Why do they do This?
 

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Because the lay girl loves anal, sauvks it better then All my options and is the hottest one i laid in a couple of years...
Bottom line man, no matter how much you rationalize, you're pulling a real sh*tball move. You have no idea what's going on in their relationship. He should have done this. He should have done that. If he was leading, I wouldn't be bending his lt relationship over his couch. All that is nonsense. She's an entitled b*tch who is looking for validation from someone. You should know better than to behave like this. A real don juan doesn't need to steal other men's women. He can get single women at the snap of a finger because he's that suave, because they want him so bad. You just took a giant sh*t on two men's lives. Maybe their relationships would end anyway but for you to blow them up like that, completely uncalled for man, completely uncalled for.
 

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Bottom line man, no matter how much you rationalize, you're pulling a real sh*tball move. You have no idea what's going on in their relationship. He should have done this. He should have done that. If he was leading, I wouldn't be bending his lt relationship over his couch. All that is nonsense. She's an entitled b*tch who is looking for validation from someone. You should know better than to behave like this. A real don juan doesn't need to steal other men's women. He can get single women at the snap of a finger because he's that suave, because they want him so bad. You just took a giant sh*t on two men's lives. Maybe their relationships would end anyway but for you to blow them up like that, completely uncalled for man, completely uncalled for.
After All I been true, I just dont feel your replie. Take What You can take. Its either live or die. With money also.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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