"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Another one! Tips on how to keep laying a woman that’s in a ltr

TheGambino

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Yesterday I made out with a girl that’s in a ltr for over a year.

Last week I layed one that’s in a ltr for 3 years. We called afterwards and asked her out but she was “busy”. NC right now.

Now the girl from yesterday texts me now.

Any tips to keep a girl who was a bf as a fvckbuddy.

What should You do? And What not?

Open for discussion!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Never mow another man's lawn.

I know these hoes ain't loyal and what not, but have some integrity. Of course it's not your fault that her man is slippin, or she's a low qual. sl*t. But this is asking for some bad karma. There's plenty of women not in "committed" relationships, why even bother with all the drama? My 2¢
 

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Never mow another man's lawn.

I know these hoes ain't loyal and what not, but have some integrity. Of course it's not your fault that her man is slippin, or she's a low qual. sl*t. But this is asking for some bad karma. There's plenty of women not in "committed" relationships, why even bother with all the drama? My 2¢
Because the lay girl loves anal, sauvks it better then All my options and is the hottest one i laid in a couple of years...
 

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Just be more interesting and fun than her LTR. It's that simple. The longer she's been in the LTR, the easier it should be.

Remember, women have been empowered with the right to be friends with whoever they want regardless of their sex or gender! Her BF shouldn't be controlling her, because she'll dump him if he does! :rofl:
 

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Hooking up with women in LTR is actually pretty easy. Just don't be boring and be discrete.... you have to wait for her to come to you. In my recent experience every chick has some kind of "boyfriend", if they aren't living together, engaged, or married... they are fair game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just dont be needy and avoid trying to be the third leg in the couple.

Take her when she shows up, ignore her the rest of thetime
 

TheGambino

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Just be more interesting and fun than her LTR. It's that simple. The longer she's been in the LTR, the easier it should be.

Remember, women have been empowered with the right to be friends with whoever they want regardless of their sex or gender! Her BF shouldn't be controlling her, because she'll dump him if he does! :rofl:
Exactley. Her friend told my buddy that she is allowed to fvck around lol! You are right. Ridiculous.
 

TheGambino

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Stop being pathetic and going after involved women.

Have some morals and be better.
In This market All women are “involved” somewhere, even if They are in a ltr. She fvcks around, if I dont do iT another man Will.

So Nonsense...
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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You are better than this.

Raise yourself up and be better.

Let another me be a scumbag then.
Spoken like a true White Knight...
 

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Just be more interesting and fun than her LTR. It's that simple. The longer she's been in the LTR, the easier it should be.

Remember, women have been empowered with the right to be friends with whoever they want regardless of their sex or gender! Her BF shouldn't be controlling her, because she'll dump him if he does! :rofl:
Might as well look at it as ho3s, and not care as long as they bring money in the house.
 

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F8cking Ugly ass fat bitches acting tough in the clubs tonight loooooool **** is getting out of hand
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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QuadDeuces

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Funny, friday last week I boned a married 34 yo, the sex was amazing, the next days she kept blowing up my phone for a second session, then a day later or so she cancelled the date last minute.

It's all good though.
 

TheGambino

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Funny, friday last week I boned a married 34 yo, the sex was amazing, the next days she kept blowing up my phone for a second session, then a day later or so she cancelled the date last minute.

It's all good though.
I can relate, Why do they do This?
 

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Because the lay girl loves anal, sauvks it better then All my options and is the hottest one i laid in a couple of years...
Bottom line man, no matter how much you rationalize, you're pulling a real sh*tball move. You have no idea what's going on in their relationship. He should have done this. He should have done that. If he was leading, I wouldn't be bending his lt relationship over his couch. All that is nonsense. She's an entitled b*tch who is looking for validation from someone. You should know better than to behave like this. A real don juan doesn't need to steal other men's women. He can get single women at the snap of a finger because he's that suave, because they want him so bad. You just took a giant sh*t on two men's lives. Maybe their relationships would end anyway but for you to blow them up like that, completely uncalled for man, completely uncalled for.
 

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Bottom line man, no matter how much you rationalize, you're pulling a real sh*tball move. You have no idea what's going on in their relationship. He should have done this. He should have done that. If he was leading, I wouldn't be bending his lt relationship over his couch. All that is nonsense. She's an entitled b*tch who is looking for validation from someone. You should know better than to behave like this. A real don juan doesn't need to steal other men's women. He can get single women at the snap of a finger because he's that suave, because they want him so bad. You just took a giant sh*t on two men's lives. Maybe their relationships would end anyway but for you to blow them up like that, completely uncalled for man, completely uncalled for.
After All I been true, I just dont feel your replie. Take What You can take. Its either live or die. With money also.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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