"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Another one of those "my boss trying to seduce me"

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I work at a grocery store. I would joke around with my female boss who is in her 40s. We'd be like in a room together and I'd say stuff like " Hey, do you want to see it?" and she'll say "I want to see it".. sh1t like that..

So lastnight, A female boss of mine brings over a box of opened condoms and shows it to me tellin me "who ever did this was bad bad bad.. i know who it was, it was you!!. Did you try em on? Did it fit you? bla bla bla"

I came back with "Yeah, I was in the backroom when I used it. I had to fold it in half to make it fit"

Then she giggles.

Next time I see her at work i am gona hit on her. Can anyone think of a good line?

I'm thinking of maybe saying "Hey, theres a dark alley across the street"

or

"Hey, what are you doing after work? (we get off at 12:30 am night time) Wana check out my new car?" < of course im gona say it jokingly
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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your playing with fire, bud.

if it was me i'd hit it too, but then again I have no self control.
 

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spider_007 said:
your playing with fire, bud.
He works at a grocery store! Unless he was the manager, I think that's overcharacterizing it a bit. Jobs like that are a dime a dozen.
 

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still, you don't want to get fired for some piece of ass.
I remember when i was 15, and i worked at A&P (grocery store), i thought it was the best job ever......And i still do (even though i work as a draguhtsman in a eng. departmant - puirty big stpe up)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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spider_007 said:
your playing with fire, bud.

if it was me i'd hit it too, but then again I have no self control.
So, even though she hasn't KINOED me, the possibility is still there? I just want to hear from experience from guys who was being seduced without kino being used on them.

Theres always a truth behind every joke im sure
 
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