PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I see the woman of my dreams every four or five minutes at the swimming pools of the MGM Grand. Keep your minds open because trust me there are TONS of hot girls out there.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Maybe you should as yourself why you're being so critical of him? Its a fvckin typo on a messege board...not really a big deal.Mr_knowit_all said:How strange. He's going to "punish himself at the gym"....yet "HUMANELY" read psychology books.
P.S. How is he going to do all this when he can't even catch his typos?
:crackup:Deus ex Pianoforte said:Next time you're pounding that s.hit, tell the woman of my dreams I said "hi" and that I just wrung the tears out from my pillow into a jar that I'm saving just for her.
P.S. My name's "Matt".
Your one of those guys that just doesnt "get it" arnt ya ???Blusher said:Post sounds bitter and jaded... Also, it doesn't sound like a healthy or realistic regimen either. That would turn any sane, if a bit lazy, guy into a nerdy-freak obsessed with work and body building. yikes!
I really don't know about that correlation between working hard, working out like a madman, learning psychology before you hit the sack, waking up with a cold shower and banging the woman of your dream...
It seems to be all this is gonna keep you way too busy to cruise around town and chat up a few babes...
I am a bit lazy myself but I have a job that pays well, my own appartment. I go to the gym but I wouldn't say I 'punish' myself there still, that's enough to keep me in a very good shape.
I read philosophy, art books or novels but not as many as "humanely" possible because I choose quality over quantity anytime. And simply because my brain is not a muscle I want to pump up.
I've picked up pretty girls since I was 17, I am now 29 and enjoying a happy LTR with a nice girl that's pretty and smart. I want to have children with her in a few years, but if we'd have to separate at some point, I'd be very sad but I wouldn't worry about meeting another pretty girl and learning to love again.
You gonna hate me for this, Krassus but the guys fvcking the dream women are most likely guys that had it all easy to start with and never worked too hard at anything. For some, life's a breeze while the rest just struggle to catch up and end up being quite jaded after a while.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
They slap eachother on the ass and go "Ola!!"SELF-MASTERY said:Does the secret society of PUA's have their own handshake???
There are 10,000 guys with Fords for every 1 guy with a Ferrari, which um... explains why you see more chicks with Ford guys than with Ferrari guys. I thought this was pretty obviousPassion said:No, this post is wrong. I see as many HBs with guys who are not buff or drive high end sports cars. I actually see way more HB8+s with guys who drive cars under $30,000 than over $30,000.
This is the usual theoretical KBJ stuff that this forum loves to churn out. The problem here is that most of these guys lack real game and try to overcompensate for it by un-proven hypothesis'.
Blusher said:Post sounds bitter and jaded...
Well, yea. I mean, i've met guys who own exotics and you know what, they're just GUYS. Why shouldn't i have what they have? They don't have 160 IQ, nor does money fall on their head when they snap their fingers. But they DO know how to work for what they want.
Also, it doesn't sound like a healthy or realistic regimen either.
So unhealthy regimens are comprised of exercising, reading and getting plenty of rest?
That would turn any sane, if a bit lazy, guy into a nerdy-freak obsessed with work and body building. yikes!
You mean... you'd actually have to get off SS and *gasp* DO something? No no no! This post is WRONG!
P.S. Obsessed is a term coined by the lazy to describe the motivated.
I really don't know about that correlation between working hard, working out like a madman, learning psychology before you hit the sack, waking up with a cold shower and banging the woman of your dream...
You're not serious...
It seems to be all this is gonna keep you way too busy to cruise around town and chat up a few babes...
I do that all weekend long *shrug*
You gonna hate me for this, Krassus but the guys fvcking the dream women are most likely guys that had it all easy to start with and never worked too hard at anything.
The guys who have the best women are the guys who have the best everything else. Of those guys, by official statistic, 96% are self-made and started with nothing. This isn't 90210, man.
For some, life's a breeze while the rest just struggle to catch up and end up being quite jaded after a while.
Precisely. For those who can REALLY push themselves, life's a breeze because hey, it's hard to get too stressed with 6 vacations a year. For those who are "a bit lazy," well... it's what you described.
u bastard!FaithHealer said:All right I admit it. It was me who fvckd the woman of your dreams.
You should probably work on your typos too azzhat. You guys crack me up. You're such little followers. Some dumbass posts something and you all get excited like it's the greatest advice you've ever heard. The same shyt was going on with that pook moron.oakraiderz2 said:Maybe you should as yourself why you're being so critical of him? Its a fvckin typo on a messege board...not really a big deal.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.