PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I see the woman of my dreams every four or five minutes at the swimming pools of the MGM Grand. Keep your minds open because trust me there are TONS of hot girls out there.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Maybe you should as yourself why you're being so critical of him? Its a fvckin typo on a messege board...not really a big deal.Mr_knowit_all said:How strange. He's going to "punish himself at the gym"....yet "HUMANELY" read psychology books.
P.S. How is he going to do all this when he can't even catch his typos?
:crackup:Deus ex Pianoforte said:Next time you're pounding that s.hit, tell the woman of my dreams I said "hi" and that I just wrung the tears out from my pillow into a jar that I'm saving just for her.
P.S. My name's "Matt".
Your one of those guys that just doesnt "get it" arnt ya ???Blusher said:Post sounds bitter and jaded... Also, it doesn't sound like a healthy or realistic regimen either. That would turn any sane, if a bit lazy, guy into a nerdy-freak obsessed with work and body building. yikes!
I really don't know about that correlation between working hard, working out like a madman, learning psychology before you hit the sack, waking up with a cold shower and banging the woman of your dream...
It seems to be all this is gonna keep you way too busy to cruise around town and chat up a few babes...
I am a bit lazy myself but I have a job that pays well, my own appartment. I go to the gym but I wouldn't say I 'punish' myself there still, that's enough to keep me in a very good shape.
I read philosophy, art books or novels but not as many as "humanely" possible because I choose quality over quantity anytime. And simply because my brain is not a muscle I want to pump up.
I've picked up pretty girls since I was 17, I am now 29 and enjoying a happy LTR with a nice girl that's pretty and smart. I want to have children with her in a few years, but if we'd have to separate at some point, I'd be very sad but I wouldn't worry about meeting another pretty girl and learning to love again.
You gonna hate me for this, Krassus but the guys fvcking the dream women are most likely guys that had it all easy to start with and never worked too hard at anything. For some, life's a breeze while the rest just struggle to catch up and end up being quite jaded after a while.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
They slap eachother on the ass and go "Ola!!"SELF-MASTERY said:Does the secret society of PUA's have their own handshake???
There are 10,000 guys with Fords for every 1 guy with a Ferrari, which um... explains why you see more chicks with Ford guys than with Ferrari guys. I thought this was pretty obviousPassion said:No, this post is wrong. I see as many HBs with guys who are not buff or drive high end sports cars. I actually see way more HB8+s with guys who drive cars under $30,000 than over $30,000.
This is the usual theoretical KBJ stuff that this forum loves to churn out. The problem here is that most of these guys lack real game and try to overcompensate for it by un-proven hypothesis'.
Blusher said:Post sounds bitter and jaded...
Well, yea. I mean, i've met guys who own exotics and you know what, they're just GUYS. Why shouldn't i have what they have? They don't have 160 IQ, nor does money fall on their head when they snap their fingers. But they DO know how to work for what they want.
Also, it doesn't sound like a healthy or realistic regimen either.
So unhealthy regimens are comprised of exercising, reading and getting plenty of rest?
That would turn any sane, if a bit lazy, guy into a nerdy-freak obsessed with work and body building. yikes!
You mean... you'd actually have to get off SS and *gasp* DO something? No no no! This post is WRONG!
P.S. Obsessed is a term coined by the lazy to describe the motivated.
I really don't know about that correlation between working hard, working out like a madman, learning psychology before you hit the sack, waking up with a cold shower and banging the woman of your dream...
You're not serious...
It seems to be all this is gonna keep you way too busy to cruise around town and chat up a few babes...
I do that all weekend long *shrug*
You gonna hate me for this, Krassus but the guys fvcking the dream women are most likely guys that had it all easy to start with and never worked too hard at anything.
The guys who have the best women are the guys who have the best everything else. Of those guys, by official statistic, 96% are self-made and started with nothing. This isn't 90210, man.
For some, life's a breeze while the rest just struggle to catch up and end up being quite jaded after a while.
Precisely. For those who can REALLY push themselves, life's a breeze because hey, it's hard to get too stressed with 6 vacations a year. For those who are "a bit lazy," well... it's what you described.
u bastard!FaithHealer said:All right I admit it. It was me who fvckd the woman of your dreams.
You should probably work on your typos too azzhat. You guys crack me up. You're such little followers. Some dumbass posts something and you all get excited like it's the greatest advice you've ever heard. The same shyt was going on with that pook moron.oakraiderz2 said:Maybe you should as yourself why you're being so critical of him? Its a fvckin typo on a messege board...not really a big deal.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.