PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I see the woman of my dreams every four or five minutes at the swimming pools of the MGM Grand. Keep your minds open because trust me there are TONS of hot girls out there.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Another man is fvcking the doman of your dreams...
- Thread starter Krassus
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
By the way, the reason I joined this board is because of a lady that I was PMing in another message board. I had been invited to go see her, but because of my situation (that I have myself to blame, and nobody else) I couldn't and now another poster is hitting on her. That could have been me, and we had much in common. Now those two are getting married.
Krassus's post hit me head on like a mack truck. I have been excercising and watching my diet. I will have the woman of my dreams.
Thanks my friend.
Krassus's post hit me head on like a mack truck. I have been excercising and watching my diet. I will have the woman of my dreams.
Thanks my friend.
No, this post is wrong. I see as many HBs with guys who are not buff or drive high end sports cars. I actually see way more HB8+s with guys who drive cars under $30,000 than over $30,000.
This is the usual theoretical KBJ stuff that this forum loves to churn out. The problem here is that most of these guys lack real game and try to overcompensate for it by un-proven hypothesis'.
This is the usual theoretical KBJ stuff that this forum loves to churn out. The problem here is that most of these guys lack real game and try to overcompensate for it by un-proven hypothesis'.
Delta
Master Don Juan
WHO'S FVCKING ANGELINA JOLIE?!?!?!
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John_Taylor
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brilliant, archive this 
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Maybe you should as yourself why you're being so critical of him? Its a fvckin typo on a messege board...not really a big deal.Mr_knowit_all said:
Blusher
Senior Don Juan
Post sounds bitter and jaded... Also, it doesn't sound like a healthy or realistic regimen either. That would turn any sane, if a bit lazy, guy into a nerdy-freak obsessed with work and body building. yikes!
I really don't know about that correlation between working hard, working out like a madman, learning psychology before you hit the sack, waking up with a cold shower and banging the woman of your dream...
It seems to be all this is gonna keep you way too busy to cruise around town and chat up a few babes...
I am a bit lazy myself but I have a job that pays well, my own appartment. I go to the gym but I wouldn't say I 'punish' myself there still, that's enough to keep me in a very good shape.
I read philosophy, art books or novels but not as many as "humanely" possible because I choose quality over quantity anytime. And simply because my brain is not a muscle I want to pump up.
I've picked up pretty girls since I was 17, I am now 29 and enjoying a happy LTR with a nice girl that's pretty and smart. I want to have children with her in a few years, but if we'd have to separate at some point, I'd be very sad but I wouldn't worry about meeting another pretty girl and learning to love again.
You gonna hate me for this, Krassus but the guys fvcking the dream women are most likely guys that had it all easy to start with and never worked too hard at anything. For some, life's a breeze while the rest just struggle to catch up and end up being quite jaded after a while.
I really don't know about that correlation between working hard, working out like a madman, learning psychology before you hit the sack, waking up with a cold shower and banging the woman of your dream...
It seems to be all this is gonna keep you way too busy to cruise around town and chat up a few babes...
I am a bit lazy myself but I have a job that pays well, my own appartment. I go to the gym but I wouldn't say I 'punish' myself there still, that's enough to keep me in a very good shape.
I read philosophy, art books or novels but not as many as "humanely" possible because I choose quality over quantity anytime. And simply because my brain is not a muscle I want to pump up.
I've picked up pretty girls since I was 17, I am now 29 and enjoying a happy LTR with a nice girl that's pretty and smart. I want to have children with her in a few years, but if we'd have to separate at some point, I'd be very sad but I wouldn't worry about meeting another pretty girl and learning to love again.
You gonna hate me for this, Krassus but the guys fvcking the dream women are most likely guys that had it all easy to start with and never worked too hard at anything. For some, life's a breeze while the rest just struggle to catch up and end up being quite jaded after a while.
typical
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Your one of those guys that just doesnt "get it" arnt ya ???Blusher said:
The dude stuck the post up to inspire the lazy trolls on this board. God people get off your high horses and cut the guy some slack. Good post although a bit brutal.
Blusher
Senior Don Juan
Well to be honest, Typical, I do get the point of Krassus but IMO this sounds a bit immature and/or irrealistic. Best case scenario, the guy has got enough discipline to keep that kind of lifestyle for a while but ends up a gym freak with no social life. As for knowledge, I believe it doesn't come by reading as many books as possible for a couple of hours before going to sleep. This is not how education works.
So anyway, I think Krassus means well with his post and I am glad to see it worked as a wake-up call for some guys here. However I do believe a more balanced approach to goal setting, planning and personal development is one that allows the individual to have a bit of time off, do things for fun and interract with others.
So anyway, I think Krassus means well with his post and I am glad to see it worked as a wake-up call for some guys here. However I do believe a more balanced approach to goal setting, planning and personal development is one that allows the individual to have a bit of time off, do things for fun and interract with others.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Blusher
Senior Don Juan
Something else, when Krassus writes "I will do the the things I have to, when I have to do them." You can sense this is not goin' to work?
Wanna know why?
"I will do the the things I have to, when I have to do them."
Now, try talking about how much you want to achieve things, how much you want to make your dreams come true.
The choice of words says a lot in itself. It sounds as if there was some sort of authority outside of him giving him orders to do this and that for his own good. Whereas this should be coming from the inside.
Think about it: what you better at and more likely to dedicate time to : the things you want and like or the things you have to do?
"To want" as opposed to "Must" or "Have to" is more positive, optimistic and is the sign of a healthier motivation in life than merely punishing oneself.
Wanna know why?
"I will do the the things I have to, when I have to do them."
Now, try talking about how much you want to achieve things, how much you want to make your dreams come true.
The choice of words says a lot in itself. It sounds as if there was some sort of authority outside of him giving him orders to do this and that for his own good. Whereas this should be coming from the inside.
Think about it: what you better at and more likely to dedicate time to : the things you want and like or the things you have to do?
"To want" as opposed to "Must" or "Have to" is more positive, optimistic and is the sign of a healthier motivation in life than merely punishing oneself.
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
Why in the hell are people over analyzing this great post? It's not that complicated.
First off, he says HAVE to, because if he wants to achieve his dreams, he knows what he NEEDS to do. Your desire should be a NEED, not a simple want, because when you just "want" something without wanting it enough to NEED it, you will not succeed, and failure will engulf you like the night engulfs the day.
Second, he's USING these thoughts for motivation. Alot people go to the gym, push out a little, get a wee bit sore and go, "well, that's enough for the day", and leave. He's going to EXHAUST his muscles when he goes, and as long he isn't doing it daily so that he doesn't die, then it'll be fine.
Krassus excellent post my man, a bit brutal but that's what people need, so yes while these guys are sitting here trying to make cute little jokes and trying to criticize you, you'll be succeeding.
By the way I'll be racing in a Mclaren, ferraris are just sooo out of fashion.
First off, he says HAVE to, because if he wants to achieve his dreams, he knows what he NEEDS to do. Your desire should be a NEED, not a simple want, because when you just "want" something without wanting it enough to NEED it, you will not succeed, and failure will engulf you like the night engulfs the day.
Second, he's USING these thoughts for motivation. Alot people go to the gym, push out a little, get a wee bit sore and go, "well, that's enough for the day", and leave. He's going to EXHAUST his muscles when he goes, and as long he isn't doing it daily so that he doesn't die, then it'll be fine.
Krassus excellent post my man, a bit brutal but that's what people need, so yes while these guys are sitting here trying to make cute little jokes and trying to criticize you, you'll be succeeding.
By the way I'll be racing in a Mclaren, ferraris are just sooo out of fashion
.DJHoolahoop
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man this post sounds like me at times. that realization you get that you're not living up to your potential or that you sit there reflecting upon your life and realizing that there could be more to it. then wondering what you need to do to go out there and obtain it INSTEAD of thinking about it and getting frustrated about NOT wanting to go through the work of getting it.
it takes time with these things, but thats why its important to constantly invest your energy into it and keep track of your progress. write goals down and make sure you're meeting them. as for the women of my dreams, she's hot, she's horny, she loves sex and will do anything involving it (including 3somes with other girls, no guys) and she'll cook me breakfast in the morning. That and of course if she aint a virgin, she would be tight like one and free of all diseases.
it takes time with these things, but thats why its important to constantly invest your energy into it and keep track of your progress. write goals down and make sure you're meeting them. as for the women of my dreams, she's hot, she's horny, she loves sex and will do anything involving it (including 3somes with other girls, no guys) and she'll cook me breakfast in the morning. That and of course if she aint a virgin, she would be tight like one and free of all diseases.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
There are 10,000 guys with Fords for every 1 guy with a Ferrari, which um... explains why you see more chicks with Ford guys than with Ferrari guys. I thought this was pretty obviousPassion said:
What you DON'T see is the fact that the Ford guy will get 1 or 2 chicks like that in his LIFE, while the Ferrari guy could get that many in a DAY.donArjun
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u bastard!FaithHealer said:
just kiddin,
sounds like another quality krauss post
Mr_knowit_all
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You should probably work on your typos too azzhat. You guys crack me up. You're such little followers. Some dumbass posts something and you all get excited like it's the greatest advice you've ever heard. The same shyt was going on with that pook moron.oakraiderz2 said:
I'm being critical of you now oak.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.