Another Girl Puts Boyfriend On Blast All On FB As He Begs Her To Comeback!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vfwIyQdHrWY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vfwIyQdHrWY
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Zarky said:everyone's done something like that when he's been dumped.
Not judging the dude, but I about died when he whipped out the teddy bear.Zion said:Finally someone who's not full of sh!t. Yes. EVERYONE has done something like that. Maybe not equally as humiliating , but we ALL had our moments - to some extent.
Anyway , the guys is being pathetic , no doubt. And if the b!tch he's crying over posted that video ,well , that's about as low as it gets. But please stop judging him like you never have been in a similar position in your entire lives.
There's no man alive that has not at least once cried for a woman. That includes Arnold and Stallone and every other badass you can name.
Yep, I know I have too. Not a video, but long emails. +rep.Zarky said:everyone's done something like that when he's been dumped. I've written untold numbers of heartfelt letters to women who've dumped me for whatever reason. Fortunately I've never done a video though. Laugh now but someday someone will be laughing at you.
The toughest motherf*cker I knew in college -- totally ripped bodybuilder and all the girls were into him -- cheated on one g/f who dumped him because of it. He did a full-on music production in the middle of the dorm, singing to her, getting down on his knees, etc, begging her to come back, in front of dozens of people. She took him back and 2 months later he cheated on her again LOL
Lol stop judging him? Dudes need to be shamed for doing silly chit like this. Go ahead and cry as much as you want in private but dont make a damn video of it for all the world to see. Those badasses cried in private and then went back out into the world still being a badass.Zion said:Finally someone who's not full of sh!t. Yes. EVERYONE has done something like that. Maybe not equally as humiliating , but we ALL had our moments - to some extent.
Anyway , the guys is being pathetic , no doubt. And if the b!tch he's crying over posted that video ,well , that's about as low as it gets. But please stop judging him like you never have been in a similar position in your entire lives.
There's no man alive that has not at least once cried for a woman. That includes Arnold and Stallone and every other badass you can name.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Zarky said:The toughest motherf*cker I knew in college -- totally ripped bodybuilder and all the girls were into him -- cheated on one g/f who dumped him because of it. He did a full-on music production in the middle of the dorm, singing to her, getting down on his knees, etc, begging her to come back, in front of dozens of people. She took him back and 2 months later he cheated on her again LOL
Yeah but he was supplicating from a position of power being him a top dog who cheated and having girls chasing him, not a random guy who got dropped for a bigger better deal and trying to "win her over" through feelings.Zarky said:The toughest motherf*cker I knew in college -- totally ripped bodybuilder and all the girls were into him -- cheated on one g/f who dumped him because of it. He did a full-on music production in the middle of the dorm, singing to her, getting down on his knees, etc, begging her to come back, in front of dozens of people. She took him back and 2 months later he cheated on her again LOL
Exactly, I remember pulling this rubbish on the phone to a girl before I found sosuave, god the video made me cringe, I feel for him.Scars said:Saw this already.
And while this guy truly is the definition of an AFC, I think it's fvcked up how this video is getting broadcast in the light that it is. This video was obviously shared and intended to humiliate this kid. This is the kind of sh!t that makes kids commit suicide.
We've all had our AFC moments, and oneitis. This kid is going to be reminded of his for the rest of his life.
-Scars
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Technically I've never cried over a girl. I've only had 1 gf though but the technicality remains.Zion said:There's no man alive that has not at least once cried for a woman. That includes Arnold and Stallone and every other badass you can name.