Another Girl Puts Boyfriend On Blast All On FB As He Begs Her To Comeback!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vfwIyQdHrWY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vfwIyQdHrWY
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Zarky said:everyone's done something like that when he's been dumped.
Not judging the dude, but I about died when he whipped out the teddy bear.Zion said:Finally someone who's not full of sh!t. Yes. EVERYONE has done something like that. Maybe not equally as humiliating , but we ALL had our moments - to some extent.
Anyway , the guys is being pathetic , no doubt. And if the b!tch he's crying over posted that video ,well , that's about as low as it gets. But please stop judging him like you never have been in a similar position in your entire lives.
There's no man alive that has not at least once cried for a woman. That includes Arnold and Stallone and every other badass you can name.
Yep, I know I have too. Not a video, but long emails. +rep.Zarky said:everyone's done something like that when he's been dumped. I've written untold numbers of heartfelt letters to women who've dumped me for whatever reason. Fortunately I've never done a video though. Laugh now but someday someone will be laughing at you.
The toughest motherf*cker I knew in college -- totally ripped bodybuilder and all the girls were into him -- cheated on one g/f who dumped him because of it. He did a full-on music production in the middle of the dorm, singing to her, getting down on his knees, etc, begging her to come back, in front of dozens of people. She took him back and 2 months later he cheated on her again LOL
Lol stop judging him? Dudes need to be shamed for doing silly chit like this. Go ahead and cry as much as you want in private but dont make a damn video of it for all the world to see. Those badasses cried in private and then went back out into the world still being a badass.Zion said:Finally someone who's not full of sh!t. Yes. EVERYONE has done something like that. Maybe not equally as humiliating , but we ALL had our moments - to some extent.
Anyway , the guys is being pathetic , no doubt. And if the b!tch he's crying over posted that video ,well , that's about as low as it gets. But please stop judging him like you never have been in a similar position in your entire lives.
There's no man alive that has not at least once cried for a woman. That includes Arnold and Stallone and every other badass you can name.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Zarky said:The toughest motherf*cker I knew in college -- totally ripped bodybuilder and all the girls were into him -- cheated on one g/f who dumped him because of it. He did a full-on music production in the middle of the dorm, singing to her, getting down on his knees, etc, begging her to come back, in front of dozens of people. She took him back and 2 months later he cheated on her again LOL
Yeah but he was supplicating from a position of power being him a top dog who cheated and having girls chasing him, not a random guy who got dropped for a bigger better deal and trying to "win her over" through feelings.Zarky said:The toughest motherf*cker I knew in college -- totally ripped bodybuilder and all the girls were into him -- cheated on one g/f who dumped him because of it. He did a full-on music production in the middle of the dorm, singing to her, getting down on his knees, etc, begging her to come back, in front of dozens of people. She took him back and 2 months later he cheated on her again LOL
Exactly, I remember pulling this rubbish on the phone to a girl before I found sosuave, god the video made me cringe, I feel for him.Scars said:Saw this already.
And while this guy truly is the definition of an AFC, I think it's fvcked up how this video is getting broadcast in the light that it is. This video was obviously shared and intended to humiliate this kid. This is the kind of sh!t that makes kids commit suicide.
We've all had our AFC moments, and oneitis. This kid is going to be reminded of his for the rest of his life.
-Scars
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Technically I've never cried over a girl. I've only had 1 gf though but the technicality remains.Zion said:There's no man alive that has not at least once cried for a woman. That includes Arnold and Stallone and every other badass you can name.