Another Girl Puts Boyfriend On Blast All On FB As He Begs Her To Comeback!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vfwIyQdHrWY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vfwIyQdHrWY
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Zarky said:everyone's done something like that when he's been dumped.
Not judging the dude, but I about died when he whipped out the teddy bear.Zion said:Finally someone who's not full of sh!t. Yes. EVERYONE has done something like that. Maybe not equally as humiliating , but we ALL had our moments - to some extent.
Anyway , the guys is being pathetic , no doubt. And if the b!tch he's crying over posted that video ,well , that's about as low as it gets. But please stop judging him like you never have been in a similar position in your entire lives.
There's no man alive that has not at least once cried for a woman. That includes Arnold and Stallone and every other badass you can name.
Yep, I know I have too. Not a video, but long emails. +rep.Zarky said:everyone's done something like that when he's been dumped. I've written untold numbers of heartfelt letters to women who've dumped me for whatever reason. Fortunately I've never done a video though. Laugh now but someday someone will be laughing at you.
The toughest motherf*cker I knew in college -- totally ripped bodybuilder and all the girls were into him -- cheated on one g/f who dumped him because of it. He did a full-on music production in the middle of the dorm, singing to her, getting down on his knees, etc, begging her to come back, in front of dozens of people. She took him back and 2 months later he cheated on her again LOL
Lol stop judging him? Dudes need to be shamed for doing silly chit like this. Go ahead and cry as much as you want in private but dont make a damn video of it for all the world to see. Those badasses cried in private and then went back out into the world still being a badass.Zion said:Finally someone who's not full of sh!t. Yes. EVERYONE has done something like that. Maybe not equally as humiliating , but we ALL had our moments - to some extent.
Anyway , the guys is being pathetic , no doubt. And if the b!tch he's crying over posted that video ,well , that's about as low as it gets. But please stop judging him like you never have been in a similar position in your entire lives.
There's no man alive that has not at least once cried for a woman. That includes Arnold and Stallone and every other badass you can name.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Zarky said:The toughest motherf*cker I knew in college -- totally ripped bodybuilder and all the girls were into him -- cheated on one g/f who dumped him because of it. He did a full-on music production in the middle of the dorm, singing to her, getting down on his knees, etc, begging her to come back, in front of dozens of people. She took him back and 2 months later he cheated on her again LOL
Yeah but he was supplicating from a position of power being him a top dog who cheated and having girls chasing him, not a random guy who got dropped for a bigger better deal and trying to "win her over" through feelings.Zarky said:The toughest motherf*cker I knew in college -- totally ripped bodybuilder and all the girls were into him -- cheated on one g/f who dumped him because of it. He did a full-on music production in the middle of the dorm, singing to her, getting down on his knees, etc, begging her to come back, in front of dozens of people. She took him back and 2 months later he cheated on her again LOL
Exactly, I remember pulling this rubbish on the phone to a girl before I found sosuave, god the video made me cringe, I feel for him.Scars said:Saw this already.
And while this guy truly is the definition of an AFC, I think it's fvcked up how this video is getting broadcast in the light that it is. This video was obviously shared and intended to humiliate this kid. This is the kind of sh!t that makes kids commit suicide.
We've all had our AFC moments, and oneitis. This kid is going to be reminded of his for the rest of his life.
-Scars
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Technically I've never cried over a girl. I've only had 1 gf though but the technicality remains.Zion said:There's no man alive that has not at least once cried for a woman. That includes Arnold and Stallone and every other badass you can name.