“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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another girl I asked out.

donjuanapprentice01

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Looking for advice on this girl I just asked out today.

First of all, I had known her before, she went to my high school. Now, this is going back close to 8 years now. Back then, she was very ordinary, a little chubby, and I was generally not interested in her. However, thinking back on it, I'm pretty sure she was interested in me, because she would call me, even though I never gave out my number to her. But, I wasn't interested back then, so I brushed her off.

Fast forward to today and, HOT DAMN! has she ever changed big time! No longer ordinary, but pretty hot, I'd say around an 8 at least. So I started chatting to her, and at the end, I asked her out for coffee, which she seemed very enthusiastic about going. She told me to call her, but she didn't give out her number, maybe she thought I still had it? I told her I would look it up in the phone book though. Also, she lives with her parents still, if that's any help.

So, how should I play this angle? I know about the 72 hour rule, but I am unsure if I should bother or not because she didn't give out her number.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shove the 72 hour rule up your a$$

Now, when you see her next, ask her for YOUR number. When she askes you to give her number...well..I'm not thinking..so fill in the blank.
 

donjuanapprentice01

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that's what i intend to do, I just found it odd that she didn't exacly give out her number, and I don't really feel comfortable going through the phone book and calling up all the numbers with her last name looking for her, cuz there is more than one. Seems like a chore to me. But she seemed enthusiastic about the whole going for coffee idea, so maybe I will.
 

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ever heard of asking for her # instead of waiting for her to give it to u ? You are the man. Women expect this of you.

I dont understand why u didnt ask for it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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