"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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another girl I asked out.

donjuanapprentice01

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Looking for advice on this girl I just asked out today.

First of all, I had known her before, she went to my high school. Now, this is going back close to 8 years now. Back then, she was very ordinary, a little chubby, and I was generally not interested in her. However, thinking back on it, I'm pretty sure she was interested in me, because she would call me, even though I never gave out my number to her. But, I wasn't interested back then, so I brushed her off.

Fast forward to today and, HOT DAMN! has she ever changed big time! No longer ordinary, but pretty hot, I'd say around an 8 at least. So I started chatting to her, and at the end, I asked her out for coffee, which she seemed very enthusiastic about going. She told me to call her, but she didn't give out her number, maybe she thought I still had it? I told her I would look it up in the phone book though. Also, she lives with her parents still, if that's any help.

So, how should I play this angle? I know about the 72 hour rule, but I am unsure if I should bother or not because she didn't give out her number.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Shove the 72 hour rule up your a$$

Now, when you see her next, ask her for YOUR number. When she askes you to give her number...well..I'm not thinking..so fill in the blank.
 

donjuanapprentice01

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that's what i intend to do, I just found it odd that she didn't exacly give out her number, and I don't really feel comfortable going through the phone book and calling up all the numbers with her last name looking for her, cuz there is more than one. Seems like a chore to me. But she seemed enthusiastic about the whole going for coffee idea, so maybe I will.
 

Wiesman44

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ever heard of asking for her # instead of waiting for her to give it to u ? You are the man. Women expect this of you.

I dont understand why u didnt ask for it
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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