"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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another girl I asked out.

donjuanapprentice01

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Looking for advice on this girl I just asked out today.

First of all, I had known her before, she went to my high school. Now, this is going back close to 8 years now. Back then, she was very ordinary, a little chubby, and I was generally not interested in her. However, thinking back on it, I'm pretty sure she was interested in me, because she would call me, even though I never gave out my number to her. But, I wasn't interested back then, so I brushed her off.

Fast forward to today and, HOT DAMN! has she ever changed big time! No longer ordinary, but pretty hot, I'd say around an 8 at least. So I started chatting to her, and at the end, I asked her out for coffee, which she seemed very enthusiastic about going. She told me to call her, but she didn't give out her number, maybe she thought I still had it? I told her I would look it up in the phone book though. Also, she lives with her parents still, if that's any help.

So, how should I play this angle? I know about the 72 hour rule, but I am unsure if I should bother or not because she didn't give out her number.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Shove the 72 hour rule up your a$$

Now, when you see her next, ask her for YOUR number. When she askes you to give her number...well..I'm not thinking..so fill in the blank.
 

donjuanapprentice01

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that's what i intend to do, I just found it odd that she didn't exacly give out her number, and I don't really feel comfortable going through the phone book and calling up all the numbers with her last name looking for her, cuz there is more than one. Seems like a chore to me. But she seemed enthusiastic about the whole going for coffee idea, so maybe I will.
 

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ever heard of asking for her # instead of waiting for her to give it to u ? You are the man. Women expect this of you.

I dont understand why u didnt ask for it
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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