"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Another Facebook thread...

Do you Delete girls you don't date/talk to of your FB

  • Yes--why waste my time with a chick who isn't into me

    Votes: 2 14.3%
  • No--Who gives a shyt

    Votes: 7 50.0%
  • It depends on the situation and what not

    Votes: 1 7.1%
  • I don't date girls I like men like Big Jimbo

    Votes: 4 28.6%

  • Total voters
    14

Solomon

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I was gonna name this the offical FB thread but meh,
anyway last night at my part time job the discussion came up on Facebook and if you should delete a girl your not dating/talking to anymore.
There were 3 types of responses

1. Yes--whats the point of having someone your not dating/talking to anymore on your facebook if your technically not friends

2. No--who Cares, it's not a big deal if someone I use to bang or went out on a couple dates with and it didn't pan out is still there.

3. It depends on the situation.

What are your thoughts on this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jitterbug

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I have no idea, and can't be bothered thinking too much about it so I just leave them there. If they're the type that post crap on FB all the time though, I'd delete them.
 

Audiophile

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I don't see the point of having the "like BigJimbo" part at the end of the last one, seems immature in my eyes. There isn't any reason for my to delete anyone on my facebook, just a waste of effort. I really don't care enough to.
 
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