"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Another Facebook thread...

Do you Delete girls you don't date/talk to of your FB

  • Yes--why waste my time with a chick who isn't into me

    Votes: 2 14.3%
  • No--Who gives a shyt

    Votes: 7 50.0%
  • It depends on the situation and what not

    Votes: 1 7.1%
  • I don't date girls I like men like Big Jimbo

    Votes: 4 28.6%

  • Total voters
    14

Solomon

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I was gonna name this the offical FB thread but meh,
anyway last night at my part time job the discussion came up on Facebook and if you should delete a girl your not dating/talking to anymore.
There were 3 types of responses

1. Yes--whats the point of having someone your not dating/talking to anymore on your facebook if your technically not friends

2. No--who Cares, it's not a big deal if someone I use to bang or went out on a couple dates with and it didn't pan out is still there.

3. It depends on the situation.

What are your thoughts on this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jitterbug

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I have no idea, and can't be bothered thinking too much about it so I just leave them there. If they're the type that post crap on FB all the time though, I'd delete them.
 

Audiophile

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I don't see the point of having the "like BigJimbo" part at the end of the last one, seems immature in my eyes. There isn't any reason for my to delete anyone on my facebook, just a waste of effort. I really don't care enough to.
 
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