"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Another Facebook thread...

Do you Delete girls you don't date/talk to of your FB

  • Yes--why waste my time with a chick who isn't into me

    Votes: 2 14.3%

  • No--Who gives a shyt

    Votes: 7 50.0%

  • It depends on the situation and what not

    Votes: 1 7.1%

  • I don't date girls I like men like Big Jimbo

    Votes: 4 28.6%
  • Total voters
    14
Solomon

Solomon

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I was gonna name this the offical FB thread but meh,
anyway last night at my part time job the discussion came up on Facebook and if you should delete a girl your not dating/talking to anymore.
There were 3 types of responses

1. Yes--whats the point of having someone your not dating/talking to anymore on your facebook if your technically not friends

2. No--who Cares, it's not a big deal if someone I use to bang or went out on a couple dates with and it didn't pan out is still there.

3. It depends on the situation.

What are your thoughts on this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have no idea, and can't be bothered thinking too much about it so I just leave them there. If they're the type that post crap on FB all the time though, I'd delete them.
 
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I don't see the point of having the "like BigJimbo" part at the end of the last one, seems immature in my eyes. There isn't any reason for my to delete anyone on my facebook, just a waste of effort. I really don't care enough to.
 
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