"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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another cold approach (kinda funny)

King_Supreme

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gonna make this quick cuz im in class.

its this chick i go to school wit who is on the same bus every mon at 640. this morn im running late & end up on the 7am bus & shes on there too.

when we get off
me: u wake up late?
her: (looks at me kinda weird)
me: i usually see u on the 640 bus
her: ooohhh, naw i was just procrastinating

i forgot what i said here, i wasnt that smooth but whatever, i ended up asking her for the number. she says
her: unfortunately i have a boyfriend

usually i would just say ok and walk away wit myy head down like an afc but i decide to have a lil fun.

me: thats ok im not jealous (she laughs)
me: u said unfortunately u have a boyfriend, u not happy or something?
her: i meant it was unfortunate for u
me: (i laugh) no its not, its unfortunate for u cuz now youll never get to know me (she laughs)

we chat a lil more while walkin cross campus then part ways

didnt number close but i was proud of how i handled the rejection. stayed cool, kept her laughing, raised my value by telling her she was the unfortunate one and kept the convo goin regardless of the rejection.

i tell yall bout my weekend at the club later. peace
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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didnt number close but i was proud of how i handled the rejection
I agree, you handled the rejection perfectly. It was just like in the books. I know I've seen that "That's ok, I'm not jealous" line before.
 

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yeah i got that it off here, but it didnt come out rehearsed it came out natural.
 

zekko

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King_Supreme said:
yeah i got that it off here, but it didnt come out rehearsed it came out natural.
Sounds like you did great. I bet you got her thinking.
 
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