"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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another cold approach (kinda funny)

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gonna make this quick cuz im in class.

its this chick i go to school wit who is on the same bus every mon at 640. this morn im running late & end up on the 7am bus & shes on there too.

when we get off
me: u wake up late?
her: (looks at me kinda weird)
me: i usually see u on the 640 bus
her: ooohhh, naw i was just procrastinating

i forgot what i said here, i wasnt that smooth but whatever, i ended up asking her for the number. she says
her: unfortunately i have a boyfriend

usually i would just say ok and walk away wit myy head down like an afc but i decide to have a lil fun.

me: thats ok im not jealous (she laughs)
me: u said unfortunately u have a boyfriend, u not happy or something?
her: i meant it was unfortunate for u
me: (i laugh) no its not, its unfortunate for u cuz now youll never get to know me (she laughs)

we chat a lil more while walkin cross campus then part ways

didnt number close but i was proud of how i handled the rejection. stayed cool, kept her laughing, raised my value by telling her she was the unfortunate one and kept the convo goin regardless of the rejection.

i tell yall bout my weekend at the club later. peace
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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didnt number close but i was proud of how i handled the rejection
I agree, you handled the rejection perfectly. It was just like in the books. I know I've seen that "That's ok, I'm not jealous" line before.
 

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yeah i got that it off here, but it didnt come out rehearsed it came out natural.
 

zekko

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King_Supreme said:
yeah i got that it off here, but it didnt come out rehearsed it came out natural.
Sounds like you did great. I bet you got her thinking.
 
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