"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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another cold approach (kinda funny)

King_Supreme

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gonna make this quick cuz im in class.

its this chick i go to school wit who is on the same bus every mon at 640. this morn im running late & end up on the 7am bus & shes on there too.

when we get off
me: u wake up late?
her: (looks at me kinda weird)
me: i usually see u on the 640 bus
her: ooohhh, naw i was just procrastinating

i forgot what i said here, i wasnt that smooth but whatever, i ended up asking her for the number. she says
her: unfortunately i have a boyfriend

usually i would just say ok and walk away wit myy head down like an afc but i decide to have a lil fun.

me: thats ok im not jealous (she laughs)
me: u said unfortunately u have a boyfriend, u not happy or something?
her: i meant it was unfortunate for u
me: (i laugh) no its not, its unfortunate for u cuz now youll never get to know me (she laughs)

we chat a lil more while walkin cross campus then part ways

didnt number close but i was proud of how i handled the rejection. stayed cool, kept her laughing, raised my value by telling her she was the unfortunate one and kept the convo goin regardless of the rejection.

i tell yall bout my weekend at the club later. peace
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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didnt number close but i was proud of how i handled the rejection
I agree, you handled the rejection perfectly. It was just like in the books. I know I've seen that "That's ok, I'm not jealous" line before.
 

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yeah i got that it off here, but it didnt come out rehearsed it came out natural.
 

zekko

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King_Supreme said:
yeah i got that it off here, but it didnt come out rehearsed it came out natural.
Sounds like you did great. I bet you got her thinking.
 
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