"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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another cold approach (kinda funny)

King_Supreme

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gonna make this quick cuz im in class.

its this chick i go to school wit who is on the same bus every mon at 640. this morn im running late & end up on the 7am bus & shes on there too.

when we get off
me: u wake up late?
her: (looks at me kinda weird)
me: i usually see u on the 640 bus
her: ooohhh, naw i was just procrastinating

i forgot what i said here, i wasnt that smooth but whatever, i ended up asking her for the number. she says
her: unfortunately i have a boyfriend

usually i would just say ok and walk away wit myy head down like an afc but i decide to have a lil fun.

me: thats ok im not jealous (she laughs)
me: u said unfortunately u have a boyfriend, u not happy or something?
her: i meant it was unfortunate for u
me: (i laugh) no its not, its unfortunate for u cuz now youll never get to know me (she laughs)

we chat a lil more while walkin cross campus then part ways

didnt number close but i was proud of how i handled the rejection. stayed cool, kept her laughing, raised my value by telling her she was the unfortunate one and kept the convo goin regardless of the rejection.

i tell yall bout my weekend at the club later. peace
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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didnt number close but i was proud of how i handled the rejection
I agree, you handled the rejection perfectly. It was just like in the books. I know I've seen that "That's ok, I'm not jealous" line before.
 

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yeah i got that it off here, but it didnt come out rehearsed it came out natural.
 

zekko

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King_Supreme said:
yeah i got that it off here, but it didnt come out rehearsed it came out natural.
Sounds like you did great. I bet you got her thinking.
 
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