"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Another chapter with my EX

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I loved and still love my ex alot. We split up a month ago and for a few weeks I was trying to get back with her to no avail.. then last week I felt better and decided not to contact her anymore.. anyways.. yesterday morning I saw her in bed with me when I woke up (hallucination or still dreaming.. whatever) so stupidly I call her up and ask for her to chill on saturday night.. go to her place.. everything is fine.. shes talking about about travel plans with her coworker.. Im like cool.. shes says shes going to see some classmates from college next week ( she likes one of them). so I was like ok I see.. good luck with him....then out of nowhere she goes.. I think Im pregnant... FVCK! I just stared at the floor for like 2 minutes and patted her back.. had no idea what to say.. she says shes going to get it aborted... just a rant.. ya we had some reall good sx a week before we broke up.. thats probably when she it "happened"... how should I go about this? right now I figure I can spend more time with her.. no experience with this situation....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You sure it's your kid? If you don't want it, support the abort!

If you want it, tell her get married and have a nice life.
 
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My Name is Nobody said:
You sure it's your kid? If you don't want it, support the abort!

If you want it, tell her get married and have a nice life.
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Agreed.

I don't think you'll get any better advice for your situation than this bro.
 
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3countriesPlan said:
.. I think Im pregnant...
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"I THINK that i am pregnant" so what. I sometimes THINK that i am richer than Trump , it does not make it true.

GET THE EVIDENCE !

REmember how much credence we men should place in what comes out of a woman's mouth ? F**kng zip.
 
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jophil28 said:
"I THINK that i am pregnant" so what. I sometimes THINK that i am richer than Trump , it does not make it true.

GET THE EVIDENCE !

REmember how much credence we men should place in what comes out of a woman's mouth ? F**kng zip.
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100% agree. 100% f*cking agree!!!!

this chic breaks up with you and then starts hanging out with you and telling you about hanging out with other guys, then tells you she is pregnant?

this b*tch is messing with your head if you ask me.

and its damn pathetic that you are letting her. some guys just never learn.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ya, she took the test for me today.. she is..
Just gonna work through this slowly. She wants to get an abortion so I will try to go down to the hospital with her whenever she schedules it.
 
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