"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Another chapter with my EX

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I loved and still love my ex alot. We split up a month ago and for a few weeks I was trying to get back with her to no avail.. then last week I felt better and decided not to contact her anymore.. anyways.. yesterday morning I saw her in bed with me when I woke up (hallucination or still dreaming.. whatever) so stupidly I call her up and ask for her to chill on saturday night.. go to her place.. everything is fine.. shes talking about about travel plans with her coworker.. Im like cool.. shes says shes going to see some classmates from college next week ( she likes one of them). so I was like ok I see.. good luck with him....then out of nowhere she goes.. I think Im pregnant... FVCK! I just stared at the floor for like 2 minutes and patted her back.. had no idea what to say.. she says shes going to get it aborted... just a rant.. ya we had some reall good sx a week before we broke up.. thats probably when she it "happened"... how should I go about this? right now I figure I can spend more time with her.. no experience with this situation....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You sure it's your kid? If you don't want it, support the abort!

If you want it, tell her get married and have a nice life.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
You sure it's your kid? If you don't want it, support the abort!

If you want it, tell her get married and have a nice life.
Agreed.

I don't think you'll get any better advice for your situation than this bro.
 

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3countriesPlan said:
.. I think Im pregnant...
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"I THINK that i am pregnant" so what. I sometimes THINK that i am richer than Trump , it does not make it true.

GET THE EVIDENCE !

REmember how much credence we men should place in what comes out of a woman's mouth ? F**kng zip.
 

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jophil28 said:
"I THINK that i am pregnant" so what. I sometimes THINK that i am richer than Trump , it does not make it true.

GET THE EVIDENCE !

REmember how much credence we men should place in what comes out of a woman's mouth ? F**kng zip.
100% agree. 100% f*cking agree!!!!

this chic breaks up with you and then starts hanging out with you and telling you about hanging out with other guys, then tells you she is pregnant?

this b*tch is messing with your head if you ask me.

and its damn pathetic that you are letting her. some guys just never learn.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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ya, she took the test for me today.. she is..
Just gonna work through this slowly. She wants to get an abortion so I will try to go down to the hospital with her whenever she schedules it.
 
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