"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Another chapter with my EX

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I loved and still love my ex alot. We split up a month ago and for a few weeks I was trying to get back with her to no avail.. then last week I felt better and decided not to contact her anymore.. anyways.. yesterday morning I saw her in bed with me when I woke up (hallucination or still dreaming.. whatever) so stupidly I call her up and ask for her to chill on saturday night.. go to her place.. everything is fine.. shes talking about about travel plans with her coworker.. Im like cool.. shes says shes going to see some classmates from college next week ( she likes one of them). so I was like ok I see.. good luck with him....then out of nowhere she goes.. I think Im pregnant... FVCK! I just stared at the floor for like 2 minutes and patted her back.. had no idea what to say.. she says shes going to get it aborted... just a rant.. ya we had some reall good sx a week before we broke up.. thats probably when she it "happened"... how should I go about this? right now I figure I can spend more time with her.. no experience with this situation....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You sure it's your kid? If you don't want it, support the abort!

If you want it, tell her get married and have a nice life.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
You sure it's your kid? If you don't want it, support the abort!

If you want it, tell her get married and have a nice life.
Agreed.

I don't think you'll get any better advice for your situation than this bro.
 

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3countriesPlan said:
.. I think Im pregnant...
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"I THINK that i am pregnant" so what. I sometimes THINK that i am richer than Trump , it does not make it true.

GET THE EVIDENCE !

REmember how much credence we men should place in what comes out of a woman's mouth ? F**kng zip.
 

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jophil28 said:
"I THINK that i am pregnant" so what. I sometimes THINK that i am richer than Trump , it does not make it true.

GET THE EVIDENCE !

REmember how much credence we men should place in what comes out of a woman's mouth ? F**kng zip.
100% agree. 100% f*cking agree!!!!

this chic breaks up with you and then starts hanging out with you and telling you about hanging out with other guys, then tells you she is pregnant?

this b*tch is messing with your head if you ask me.

and its damn pathetic that you are letting her. some guys just never learn.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ya, she took the test for me today.. she is..
Just gonna work through this slowly. She wants to get an abortion so I will try to go down to the hospital with her whenever she schedules it.
 
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