Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hi! When I was growing up, as a kid I have always looked pretty bad. Having seriously messed up teeth, really bad hair, bad posture, bad facial skin and dark circles around my eyes. As I grow older, I have changed a bit. Started to take real care about my appearance just a few months ago. So today I decided to take a few pics. In the pictures below you will see how I try to look everyday. I try to wear v necks as much as possible. Now I have shorts on, but when i go to work I wear jeans, the same color my shirt is. Usually I have motionless face. I decided to try smiling a lot in my everyday life, but I look pretty weird when I do. Now I am trying to improve my smile, but still can' t get it quiet right. The last pic is best I can do now, but when someone takes a picture of my when I am laughing/smiling I look like total troll.

Ok, now reason for the post is, that maybe you guys can give me guidance, on what I might be lacking, and what can I improve.

For all the answers thanks in advance. CHEERS!

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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time to start working out especially if you like V shirts. you are kinda skinny so it will be easy to look lean, wont be easy to gain muscles though. check bradd80's guide, at the end of that guide there are workout tips.
 

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You Look Like Jesse Pickman, B*tch!

http://masspictures.net/aaron-paul/aaron-paul3/

In Rex's opinion, you should be pullin 7.5's and 8's just off of the strength that you bear a resemblance to Aaron Paul. With that being said, it seem that the only thing you need to is hit the gym, eat right, and get your grill fixed.
 

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As everyone already said. You're fine. Hit the gym, get a workout plan, stay dedicated and work on your inner game.
 

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Focus on attaining 20-30 lbs. of lean muscle, and you will be attracting 8s and 9s effortlessly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's the problem? White, blonde, blue eyes. The odds are in your favor. Just work on inner game. You're a good looking guy. FULL HOMO
 

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No.Danny said:
What's the problem? White, blonde, blue eyes. The odds are in your favor. Just work on inner game. You're a good looking guy. FULL HOMO

Bahaha!
 

Ronaldo7

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Hit the gym.

Don't smile if you are insecure about it.

Style your hair.
 

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PokerJohn94 said:
Hi! When I was growing up, as a kid I have always looked pretty bad. Having seriously messed up teeth, really bad hair, bad posture, bad facial skin and dark circles around my eyes. As I grow older, I have changed a bit. Started to take real care about my appearance just a few months ago. So today I decided to take a few pics. In the pictures below you will see how I try to look everyday. I try to wear v necks as much as possible. Now I have shorts on, but when i go to work I wear jeans, the same color my shirt is. Usually I have motionless face. I decided to try smiling a lot in my everyday life, but I look pretty weird when I do. Now I am trying to improve my smile, but still can' t get it quiet right. The last pic is best I can do now, but when someone takes a picture of my when I am laughing/smiling I look like total troll.

Ok, now reason for the post is, that maybe you guys can give me guidance, on what I might be lacking, and what can I improve.

For all the answers thanks in advance. CHEERS!

PICS:
http://postimg.org/image/9vgnjuy45/
You're pretty good looking but you look so innocent and yeah a bit motionless. Try lowering your eyebrows, like your sort of squinting but not too hard, or smirking when in everyday life. And when you smile at people do it with teeth! Oh yeah don't be afraid to lift some weights. But really dude you're pretty good looking so I'm thinking you're just lacking some inner game.
 

ImprovingJuan

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im not gay dude, you are fine. but you dont look good with v neck tshirts, i know because ive been told the same, workout especially the chest area if you want to rock v necks. they dont look good on skinny guys

about the smile you seem a little insecure. apart from that you look great. just hit the gym, try to smile more openly and with confidence.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah its your posture that's off. Like everyone said, put on some weight and build some self esteem/confidence.
If you feel like crap you will come off to others as looking like crap. If you feel like a million dollars than others will think you look like a million dollars. Simple.
 

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plus i dont know how messed up your teeth are, but if they are and if you work, put some money aside and invest in braces. i had crooked teeth and i know that i've made a great investment in the long run. a great smile is a chick magnet.
 

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Thanks guys for responding so much. I really appreciate it! Actually boosted my confidence a bit. Need to wait for my next paycheck, but I will most definantly join a gym. It appears that its my biggest leak as far as appearance goes.

Thanks Vishyo for the guide. I will read it, and than rereadit.

For the smiling. I have weird smiling muscles. I have noticed, that when people smile with theeth, and look good doing so, they all have pointy mouth corners when they smile. I don't. My corners are sort of round, and that is why I look weird when I try to smile showing teeth.

Guys I do have a question about my hair. Its not like they are not styled. That are. I have a natural vawe going, and I like the way they look, specially in these pics, but numerous girls and guys have said, that I should cut them short. No one have really said, that they like my hair. :D What you guys think about it? And if i should change my hair, what hairstyle would look awesome on me?
 

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guru1000 said:
Focus on attaining 20-30 lbs. of lean muscle, and you will be attracting 8s and 9s effortlessly.
I agree with everyone else. You look like a good looking, healthy young fellow, and it looks like you have a stylish haircut. Only thing is you're awfully scrawny. Get into a full body weightlifting plan (not just your arms) with the goal of bulking up. Note however, that once you put on 10-30 lbs. of muscle, your face is probably going to look a lot different. Not to mention you're going to need all new clothes because your old ones won't fit you.
 

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you are a good looking dude. get invisalign, and goto the gym, maybe a little vitamin D and confidence and you will be killing it man.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm confused, why does he need the gym? Perhaps I've been living in a delusion that ladies don't go for the visuals but for what a man exudes? :)
 

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hudpes said:
I'm confused, why does he need the gym? Perhaps I've been living in a delusion that ladies don't go for the visuals but for what a man exudes? :)
Because the gym does more for your self image than your appearance to other people.
 

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hudpes said:
I'm confused, why does he need the gym? Perhaps I've been living in a delusion that ladies don't go for the visuals but for what a man exudes? :)
because he doesnt look good with vnecks for starters
 

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Just started lifting....how does one gain lean muscle? I am not trying to get bulky
 

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hudpes said:
I'm confused, why does he need the gym? Perhaps I've been living in a delusion that ladies don't go for the visuals but for what a man exudes? :)
Because he looks kinda puny. Women want to feel protected. This is one of the basic things that women are attracted to, and one of the major male gender roles: Protector. Nothing wrong with being skinny, but when you're very skinny it looks like another guy could come along and stuff you into a locker.

Fortunately for the OP, it's a simple fix. Not an EASY fix, really, because weightlifting involves work. But it IS a simple fix. Get a solid lifting routine and start building some muscle.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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