“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hi! When I was growing up, as a kid I have always looked pretty bad. Having seriously messed up teeth, really bad hair, bad posture, bad facial skin and dark circles around my eyes. As I grow older, I have changed a bit. Started to take real care about my appearance just a few months ago. So today I decided to take a few pics. In the pictures below you will see how I try to look everyday. I try to wear v necks as much as possible. Now I have shorts on, but when i go to work I wear jeans, the same color my shirt is. Usually I have motionless face. I decided to try smiling a lot in my everyday life, but I look pretty weird when I do. Now I am trying to improve my smile, but still can' t get it quiet right. The last pic is best I can do now, but when someone takes a picture of my when I am laughing/smiling I look like total troll.

Ok, now reason for the post is, that maybe you guys can give me guidance, on what I might be lacking, and what can I improve.

For all the answers thanks in advance. CHEERS!

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time to start working out especially if you like V shirts. you are kinda skinny so it will be easy to look lean, wont be easy to gain muscles though. check bradd80's guide, at the end of that guide there are workout tips.
 

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You Look Like Jesse Pickman, B*tch!

http://masspictures.net/aaron-paul/aaron-paul3/

In Rex's opinion, you should be pullin 7.5's and 8's just off of the strength that you bear a resemblance to Aaron Paul. With that being said, it seem that the only thing you need to is hit the gym, eat right, and get your grill fixed.
 

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As everyone already said. You're fine. Hit the gym, get a workout plan, stay dedicated and work on your inner game.
 

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Focus on attaining 20-30 lbs. of lean muscle, and you will be attracting 8s and 9s effortlessly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What's the problem? White, blonde, blue eyes. The odds are in your favor. Just work on inner game. You're a good looking guy. FULL HOMO
 

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No.Danny said:
What's the problem? White, blonde, blue eyes. The odds are in your favor. Just work on inner game. You're a good looking guy. FULL HOMO

Bahaha!
 

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Hit the gym.

Don't smile if you are insecure about it.

Style your hair.
 

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PokerJohn94 said:
Hi! When I was growing up, as a kid I have always looked pretty bad. Having seriously messed up teeth, really bad hair, bad posture, bad facial skin and dark circles around my eyes. As I grow older, I have changed a bit. Started to take real care about my appearance just a few months ago. So today I decided to take a few pics. In the pictures below you will see how I try to look everyday. I try to wear v necks as much as possible. Now I have shorts on, but when i go to work I wear jeans, the same color my shirt is. Usually I have motionless face. I decided to try smiling a lot in my everyday life, but I look pretty weird when I do. Now I am trying to improve my smile, but still can' t get it quiet right. The last pic is best I can do now, but when someone takes a picture of my when I am laughing/smiling I look like total troll.

Ok, now reason for the post is, that maybe you guys can give me guidance, on what I might be lacking, and what can I improve.

For all the answers thanks in advance. CHEERS!

PICS:
http://postimg.org/image/9vgnjuy45/
You're pretty good looking but you look so innocent and yeah a bit motionless. Try lowering your eyebrows, like your sort of squinting but not too hard, or smirking when in everyday life. And when you smile at people do it with teeth! Oh yeah don't be afraid to lift some weights. But really dude you're pretty good looking so I'm thinking you're just lacking some inner game.
 

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im not gay dude, you are fine. but you dont look good with v neck tshirts, i know because ive been told the same, workout especially the chest area if you want to rock v necks. they dont look good on skinny guys

about the smile you seem a little insecure. apart from that you look great. just hit the gym, try to smile more openly and with confidence.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Yeah its your posture that's off. Like everyone said, put on some weight and build some self esteem/confidence.
If you feel like crap you will come off to others as looking like crap. If you feel like a million dollars than others will think you look like a million dollars. Simple.
 

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plus i dont know how messed up your teeth are, but if they are and if you work, put some money aside and invest in braces. i had crooked teeth and i know that i've made a great investment in the long run. a great smile is a chick magnet.
 

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Thanks guys for responding so much. I really appreciate it! Actually boosted my confidence a bit. Need to wait for my next paycheck, but I will most definantly join a gym. It appears that its my biggest leak as far as appearance goes.

Thanks Vishyo for the guide. I will read it, and than rereadit.

For the smiling. I have weird smiling muscles. I have noticed, that when people smile with theeth, and look good doing so, they all have pointy mouth corners when they smile. I don't. My corners are sort of round, and that is why I look weird when I try to smile showing teeth.

Guys I do have a question about my hair. Its not like they are not styled. That are. I have a natural vawe going, and I like the way they look, specially in these pics, but numerous girls and guys have said, that I should cut them short. No one have really said, that they like my hair. :D What you guys think about it? And if i should change my hair, what hairstyle would look awesome on me?
 

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guru1000 said:
Focus on attaining 20-30 lbs. of lean muscle, and you will be attracting 8s and 9s effortlessly.
I agree with everyone else. You look like a good looking, healthy young fellow, and it looks like you have a stylish haircut. Only thing is you're awfully scrawny. Get into a full body weightlifting plan (not just your arms) with the goal of bulking up. Note however, that once you put on 10-30 lbs. of muscle, your face is probably going to look a lot different. Not to mention you're going to need all new clothes because your old ones won't fit you.
 

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you are a good looking dude. get invisalign, and goto the gym, maybe a little vitamin D and confidence and you will be killing it man.
 

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I'm confused, why does he need the gym? Perhaps I've been living in a delusion that ladies don't go for the visuals but for what a man exudes? :)
 

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hudpes said:
I'm confused, why does he need the gym? Perhaps I've been living in a delusion that ladies don't go for the visuals but for what a man exudes? :)
Because the gym does more for your self image than your appearance to other people.
 

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hudpes said:
I'm confused, why does he need the gym? Perhaps I've been living in a delusion that ladies don't go for the visuals but for what a man exudes? :)
because he doesnt look good with vnecks for starters
 

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Just started lifting....how does one gain lean muscle? I am not trying to get bulky
 

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hudpes said:
I'm confused, why does he need the gym? Perhaps I've been living in a delusion that ladies don't go for the visuals but for what a man exudes? :)
Because he looks kinda puny. Women want to feel protected. This is one of the basic things that women are attracted to, and one of the major male gender roles: Protector. Nothing wrong with being skinny, but when you're very skinny it looks like another guy could come along and stuff you into a locker.

Fortunately for the OP, it's a simple fix. Not an EASY fix, really, because weightlifting involves work. But it IS a simple fix. Get a solid lifting routine and start building some muscle.
 
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