"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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annoying gusy asking for a threesome

pyros

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So I've been on six dates with this 19 years old chick, I've banged her once.
Last night we were in a night club and when I was ordering at the bar two 40 years old guys with a woman around 35 who were a bit drunk said to my date:

them: "hey you're too cute! wanna join us for a threesome tonight?? hahahah"

she got kind of scared, I just said to them: "hey, it's not gonna be possible"
and she went to hug me.

But now that I think about it... first I was not gonna say anything to them cause Ive just been on a few dates with her and I just see her as a fwb, but I think that I should have been more harsh towards them or more territorial, cause I think she would have liked it more.

Just wondering.

Opinions? comments?
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sylvester the cat

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why? you would have come over as butt hurt

you should have said:

I'd love to but I'm afraid my girl might feel left out. then left.
 

dasein

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The only time to get physically territorial IMO is when someone is touching her or flagrantly insulting her. Have found "that's very rude, go away now" works pretty well in lesser situations.

Best plan is to avoid sleazy places where the environment allows stuff like this. Taking any average or above looking woman into a pickup bar or meat market club leads to crap like this more often than not.
 

Cremasta

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In situations like that, I'd always hang back for a couple of seconds and see if the girl can handle it herself.
I would only ever jump in if she was clearly not going to handle it, or if the guys didn't give up and kept harrassing her.

What you did was fine, no need for aggro.
 
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