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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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annoying gusy asking for a threesome

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So I've been on six dates with this 19 years old chick, I've banged her once.
Last night we were in a night club and when I was ordering at the bar two 40 years old guys with a woman around 35 who were a bit drunk said to my date:

them: "hey you're too cute! wanna join us for a threesome tonight?? hahahah"

she got kind of scared, I just said to them: "hey, it's not gonna be possible"
and she went to hug me.

But now that I think about it... first I was not gonna say anything to them cause Ive just been on a few dates with her and I just see her as a fwb, but I think that I should have been more harsh towards them or more territorial, cause I think she would have liked it more.

Just wondering.

Opinions? comments?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why? you would have come over as butt hurt

you should have said:

I'd love to but I'm afraid my girl might feel left out. then left.
 
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The only time to get physically territorial IMO is when someone is touching her or flagrantly insulting her. Have found "that's very rude, go away now" works pretty well in lesser situations.

Best plan is to avoid sleazy places where the environment allows stuff like this. Taking any average or above looking woman into a pickup bar or meat market club leads to crap like this more often than not.
 
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In situations like that, I'd always hang back for a couple of seconds and see if the girl can handle it herself.
I would only ever jump in if she was clearly not going to handle it, or if the guys didn't give up and kept harrassing her.

What you did was fine, no need for aggro.
 
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