"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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annoying gusy asking for a threesome

pyros

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So I've been on six dates with this 19 years old chick, I've banged her once.
Last night we were in a night club and when I was ordering at the bar two 40 years old guys with a woman around 35 who were a bit drunk said to my date:

them: "hey you're too cute! wanna join us for a threesome tonight?? hahahah"

she got kind of scared, I just said to them: "hey, it's not gonna be possible"
and she went to hug me.

But now that I think about it... first I was not gonna say anything to them cause Ive just been on a few dates with her and I just see her as a fwb, but I think that I should have been more harsh towards them or more territorial, cause I think she would have liked it more.

Just wondering.

Opinions? comments?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sylvester the cat

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why? you would have come over as butt hurt

you should have said:

I'd love to but I'm afraid my girl might feel left out. then left.
 

dasein

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The only time to get physically territorial IMO is when someone is touching her or flagrantly insulting her. Have found "that's very rude, go away now" works pretty well in lesser situations.

Best plan is to avoid sleazy places where the environment allows stuff like this. Taking any average or above looking woman into a pickup bar or meat market club leads to crap like this more often than not.
 

Cremasta

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In situations like that, I'd always hang back for a couple of seconds and see if the girl can handle it herself.
I would only ever jump in if she was clearly not going to handle it, or if the guys didn't give up and kept harrassing her.

What you did was fine, no need for aggro.
 
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