"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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annoying gusy asking for a threesome

pyros

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So I've been on six dates with this 19 years old chick, I've banged her once.
Last night we were in a night club and when I was ordering at the bar two 40 years old guys with a woman around 35 who were a bit drunk said to my date:

them: "hey you're too cute! wanna join us for a threesome tonight?? hahahah"

she got kind of scared, I just said to them: "hey, it's not gonna be possible"
and she went to hug me.

But now that I think about it... first I was not gonna say anything to them cause Ive just been on a few dates with her and I just see her as a fwb, but I think that I should have been more harsh towards them or more territorial, cause I think she would have liked it more.

Just wondering.

Opinions? comments?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

sylvester the cat

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why? you would have come over as butt hurt

you should have said:

I'd love to but I'm afraid my girl might feel left out. then left.
 

dasein

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The only time to get physically territorial IMO is when someone is touching her or flagrantly insulting her. Have found "that's very rude, go away now" works pretty well in lesser situations.

Best plan is to avoid sleazy places where the environment allows stuff like this. Taking any average or above looking woman into a pickup bar or meat market club leads to crap like this more often than not.
 

Cremasta

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In situations like that, I'd always hang back for a couple of seconds and see if the girl can handle it herself.
I would only ever jump in if she was clearly not going to handle it, or if the guys didn't give up and kept harrassing her.

What you did was fine, no need for aggro.
 
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