“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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annoying gusy asking for a threesome

pyros

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So I've been on six dates with this 19 years old chick, I've banged her once.
Last night we were in a night club and when I was ordering at the bar two 40 years old guys with a woman around 35 who were a bit drunk said to my date:

them: "hey you're too cute! wanna join us for a threesome tonight?? hahahah"

she got kind of scared, I just said to them: "hey, it's not gonna be possible"
and she went to hug me.

But now that I think about it... first I was not gonna say anything to them cause Ive just been on a few dates with her and I just see her as a fwb, but I think that I should have been more harsh towards them or more territorial, cause I think she would have liked it more.

Just wondering.

Opinions? comments?
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

sylvester the cat

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why? you would have come over as butt hurt

you should have said:

I'd love to but I'm afraid my girl might feel left out. then left.
 

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The only time to get physically territorial IMO is when someone is touching her or flagrantly insulting her. Have found "that's very rude, go away now" works pretty well in lesser situations.

Best plan is to avoid sleazy places where the environment allows stuff like this. Taking any average or above looking woman into a pickup bar or meat market club leads to crap like this more often than not.
 

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In situations like that, I'd always hang back for a couple of seconds and see if the girl can handle it herself.
I would only ever jump in if she was clearly not going to handle it, or if the guys didn't give up and kept harrassing her.

What you did was fine, no need for aggro.
 
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