"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Annoying, ****-blocking, orbitters!

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Every and any party we go to we all run into hot, sexy, DTF girls. Every one of these girls comes with orbitters. Other guys leeching on to that single girl trying their hardest to get her alone and within their grasp. It seems as though every party that ive been to lately, my game has been lacking and i havent been able to separate the girl from the orbitters. Anyone wanna share their top-notch methods on getting rid of them in minimal time?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sneevox

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I just look at the guy, then the girl, then I walk away and stop showing interest.

That's usually enough for the girl to tell the guy to fvck off or something... plus, I'm doing the guy a "favor" and backing off of the girl he "loves".
 
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NorwegianDJ

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Just introduce yourself to both of them, then ignore the guy with minimal acknowledgement and talk to the girl. He'll walk away shortly and you can lead her somewhere else.
 
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If it's one of those guys where not matter what you do they still stick around, dial up the sexuality to the extreme. Either he'll leave or they'll both leave, in the first case score you hook up. In the second case score because if she isn't comfortable with you being sexual, she isn't going to be comfortable having sex with you.
 
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The contributors here are clearly knowledgeable, in particular Norwegian DJ (I mean from what I've read, although minimal, this guy is a boss) however I will be as bold to offer a contrasting view and play devils advocate. If you bring this "orbiter" into the conversation before he has a chance to become aggressive, or better yet approach him rather than her, this person will be less likely to become resentful if you take the girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I say playfully call out the obvious. I'd make comments like "he looks like a nice guy. He looks like he would be a nice boyfriend, always available for you" And walk away. Later on in the party, call her over to your group, leaving the orbitter behind.
 
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