"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Annoying, ****-blocking, orbitters!

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Every and any party we go to we all run into hot, sexy, DTF girls. Every one of these girls comes with orbitters. Other guys leeching on to that single girl trying their hardest to get her alone and within their grasp. It seems as though every party that ive been to lately, my game has been lacking and i havent been able to separate the girl from the orbitters. Anyone wanna share their top-notch methods on getting rid of them in minimal time?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sneevox

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I just look at the guy, then the girl, then I walk away and stop showing interest.

That's usually enough for the girl to tell the guy to fvck off or something... plus, I'm doing the guy a "favor" and backing off of the girl he "loves".
 

NorwegianDJ

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Just introduce yourself to both of them, then ignore the guy with minimal acknowledgement and talk to the girl. He'll walk away shortly and you can lead her somewhere else.
 

Jack Wealthy

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If it's one of those guys where not matter what you do they still stick around, dial up the sexuality to the extreme. Either he'll leave or they'll both leave, in the first case score you hook up. In the second case score because if she isn't comfortable with you being sexual, she isn't going to be comfortable having sex with you.
 

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The contributors here are clearly knowledgeable, in particular Norwegian DJ (I mean from what I've read, although minimal, this guy is a boss) however I will be as bold to offer a contrasting view and play devils advocate. If you bring this "orbiter" into the conversation before he has a chance to become aggressive, or better yet approach him rather than her, this person will be less likely to become resentful if you take the girl.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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alxrose04

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I say playfully call out the obvious. I'd make comments like "he looks like a nice guy. He looks like he would be a nice boyfriend, always available for you" And walk away. Later on in the party, call her over to your group, leaving the orbitter behind.
 
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