"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hi, I'm from university of michigan. I almost finished reading "the game" quite the eye opener. Let's get a group started...any DJs in Ann Arbor?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sorry I haven't gotten back to you

I've been without internet. I didn't have your phone number. I'd still like to meet up and pick-up some chicks. That would be cool.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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That's quite alright

Crossboss,
That's alright, I'm thinking about sarging different locations, UofM diag, malls, clubs, etc, at least once a week. Cafe and I did one round in the diag a few weeks ago, I'm thinking of doing this more consistently, helping each other out, and really stepping up our games in next 2 months.
 

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this weekend

Let's meet up this Sat around 1pm in the diag if u can make it. I'm going to give cafenoir a call also. Drop me a private message with your phone #.
 

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Holy sh*T!!!!Guys im in Michigan as well,im in Lansing,Michigan but were you guys at anin Ann Arbor i\'ll defintely come with you guys.
 

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Achielles34 said:
Hi, I'm from university of michigan. I almost finished reading "the game" quite the eye opener. Let's get a group started...any DJs in Ann Arbor?
Hello Achielles, do you remember Juggler from the book he lives in Ann Arbor. He offer bootcamps and they rock. I went to one a month ago and it was the best thing I ever did. His method is based more on personality and conversation than on routines. I found that this fit my style better. You should check him out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lance Romance said:
Hello Achielles, do you remember Juggler from the book he lives in Ann Arbor. He offer bootcamps and they rock. I went to one a month ago and it was the best thing I ever did. His method is based more on personality and conversation than on routines. I found that this fit my style better. You should check him out.

ya, for $1 600:rolleyes:
 

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Juggler's workshop

I was looking at Juggler's workshop, I really want to do it except the cost is exceptionally high. I've been looking at his e-book for awhile now, how would you compare the workshop to his e-book? Would you say the workshop is worth $1600?
 

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DJs Check in!

All Ann Arbor DJs check in! Send me a pm if you're interested in sarging on a weekly basis, daytime, nighttime, anytime and for the upcoming Art Fair. I'll be setting up a yahoo group to facilitate communication. Newbies welcome for now...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How old are you guys? I'll be attending the University of Michigan this fall semester as an incoming freshman so I'm only 17 years old.
 

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wow u're really young. I'm 23 and I may be your RA if you live in Baits.
 

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Achielles34 said:
wow u're really young. I'm 23 and I may be your RA if you live in Baits.
I'll actually be housing in Couzens. I originally got Bursley Hall, but did a contract reassignment. Some friends of mine are living in Baits next year and they're really cool guys.
 

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Since everyone in this thread is from Ann Arbor I just have a few questions to ask. First of all, what does everyone here think is the best dance club in Ann Arbor? Necto? And second of all, what is everyone's favorite place to shop for clothes? A & F? Hollilster? PacSun? H & M? Old Navy? Eddie Bauer? American Eagle?

Just curious to know everyone's opinion
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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